Writing Stuff

The Point is to Write it Down

Life – from the pencil’s point of view.

Point from Victoria Harding on Vimeo.

Sort of makes me want to write, old school.

Now, to just find a #2 pencil.

*scribble-scribble*

*scribble-scribble*

*scribble-scribble*

*scribble-scribble*

UGH. This thing is driving me nuts. It’s too slow. It can’t keep up with my thoughts.

Never mind. I’m over it. Where’s my laptop?!?

“The point,” of course, is there is never an excuse NOT to write it down – whether it’s your thoughts, your doodles, your life, or your grocery list.

Leave a little of YOU behind – write it down.

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I spent a long time Saturday trying to reload WordPress on my karenmaxwell.com domain. However, the servers on our web host are not updated and I couldn’t get it to work.

I simply don’t have the energy (or the desire) to contact my web host and go through the process of making it work, especially since the last time I self-hosted I had nothing but problems and my blog was down most of the time.

(This blog, and my writing blog, are hosted on the wordpress.com servers. I don’t have as much control over the blogs as I would have using a self-host, but I have a lot less headaches – which is totally worth it for me).

I reserved the karenmaxwell.com domain for my writing – so I revamped an existing blog, re-routed the domain name and now when you type in karenmaxwell.com, it takes you to my “writing” blog. I’m loosely calling it my writing blog because I haven’t updated it in quite some time.

I’d like to fix that. (Ha! “Fix”. Get it??) So, I will try and post a writing prompt every week, something that sounds fun and challenging, and then write one story, every week, using that prompt. I will likely post an excerpt here, but the full story will be at my writing blog.

It’s time to step away from the Twitter stream and get serious about my writing.

AGAIN.

*sigh*

Sunday Stuff, Twitter Messages

SOC: Nerves of Steel

http://twitter.com/#!/writefromkaren/status/102820484793643008

This is the second time I’ve taught someone how to drive. The first time was my first son, this second time is my second son.

I’m way more nervous with my second son.

Dude, my first born, was, is, a cautious driver. He takes his time. He pays attention to what’s happening around him. He’s probably too cautious, which is a problem by itself, but Jazz, my second son, is reckless, impatient, slams on the breaks, followed by the accelerator and is not detail oriented. In other words, he doesn’t pay attention to the small stuff, or the big stuff, like that cherry red dual-wheel monster truck coming right at us.

One of Jazz’s friends called him up today. He wanted him to come over and hang out for a few hours. Even though I was thrilled that he wanted to get out of the house and hang with an actual human (as opposed to the virtual humans in his computer), it meant that I had to drive him over there.

Or more accurately, that he had to drive himself over there with me hanging on for dear life.

It’s not that he’s a BAD driver, per se, he’s just a NEW driver.

He backed out of the driveway for the first time today. Reverse is always the most challenging; it’s also the most nerve wracking. The car feels different in reverse, it handles different in reverse and it’s much harder to anticipate what could go wrong in reverse.

The biggest lesson I taught Jazz today was that it’s not always necessary to press on the accelerator. There are times that a nice, SLOW, simple coast is all the car requires in order for it to do what you want it to do.

He had a lot more control after I taught him that lesson.

Today was the first time we drove on busier streets. He did fine, though he still has a problem gauging how close to get to a stop sign, or a stop light before coming to a full stop. Often times, we’ve missed our mark.

Still though, I’m a much better teacher than Kevin – I’ve mastered the fine art of hiding my terror.

*ding* Time’s up.

#SOCsunday

This was my 5 minute Stream of Consciousness Sunday post. It’s five minutes of your time and a brain dump. Want to try it?

Abundant Life

Teaching: How to Teach: Some Basics of Publicly Presenting the Scripture

Every Sunday I provide videos and valuable links to the Truth or Tradition teachings. We’ve been following the Truth or Tradition teachings for many years now and they have truly blessed our family. We have found peace and happiness through our beliefs and we walk confidently for God. My hope, by passing on this information to you, is that what you find here, or on the Truth or Tradition website, will guide you to a better, more blessed and abundant life.

If you would like to read my views on religion and how we got started with the ministry, you can read this.

Let’s get started:

Homiletics:

Modern definition: “The art of preaching.” Webster’s 1828 definition: “A branch of practical theology, which teaches the manner in which ministers of the gospel should adapt their discourses to the capacities of their hearers, and pursue the best methods of instructing them by their doctrines and examples.”

Getting started:

When you begin to think about teaching others, you should think about the times you were in the audience.

What did you like? Why?
What did you not like? Why?
What do you remember from the teachings you have heard? Why do you remember those things?
What made an impact on you? Why?
Chances are that the people in your audience will feel like you do about teachings and presentations. If you like something and it made an impact on you, make note of that and make it work for you. If you did not like something in a teacher or preacher, why subject others to it?

Choosing a topic:

1. Teach the Word of God. The Bible is the literature of eternity. It is “living and active” (Heb. 4:12). The words of the Lord bring spiritual life (John 6:63). There are times when the Word of God does not need to be taught, but a weekly fellowship meeting or Sunday Service is not one of them. God speaks to the hearts of people when His Word is read.

2. Have a point. A good teaching is like a straight pin or fishhook–it has a good point. What do you want your audience to “take home”? They will not remember everything, and if they remember only one point (which often is the case), what do you want it to be?

3. Have a reason for what you are teaching, to whom you are teaching it, and when it is being presented. You might do a wonderful teaching on the husband-wife relationship, and make a great point, but if you are teaching to a group of teens in a juvenile delinquent home, your reason for picking the topic is questionable. The topic should be relevant to the people in some powerful way.

Stuck in choosing a topic?

Charles Spurgeon has a couple suggestions: “To the poor, stranded preacher, who cannot launch his mind…I recommend him in such as case, to turn again to the Word of God itself.” Many teachings have come to mind as ministers just went page-by-page through the Word of God, thinking and praying. Also Spurgeon suggests, “Read also good suggestive books, and get your mind aroused by them” (Lectures to My Students, pp. 92, 93).

If you are going to teach regularly, it is advisable to have a file with ideas in it. As you are reading and studying on a daily basis, and ideas come to you for teachings, keep them in the file. Also, people might come to you and ask you to teach on a specific subject, so keep those suggestions in your file.

Choosing a teaching style:

This is closely related to “Choosing a Topic” above. Three styles or types of teaching are: Topical teaching, Expository teaching, and Preaching.

A topical teaching centers on a topic (say, “thankfulness”) and follows that topic through many places in the Word. An expository teaching is based on a section of Scripture (say, Matthew 5) and expounds what it means. “Preaching” is less centered on the text and more centered on salvation, godliness, morality, etc., without reinforcing each point with a written scripture or explaining any particular verse.

The teaching style is not as important as having a point and purpose for what you are doing.

The opening:

The best thing to remember about an opening is the phrase, “Tell them what you are going to teach, teach it, and then tell them what you taught.” A Bible teaching is not a mystery novel. It should not unfold and have an ending that surprises the listeners. If you try to do that you will lose many of them early on, and may not get them back. Let the people know up front what you are trying to communicate.

When you take the lectern, you may want to open with a prayer. That is fine, but not necessary. Similarly, you may want to close with a prayer, which is also sometimes appropriate, but not necessary. Never use your opening prayer for “crowd control,” i.e. to get a noisy audience to settle down. Prayer is holy communication with the Lord and should never be used for such base purposes! Buy a whistle if you need to get the crowd to quiet down, and use prayer as it is intended, to worship and bless the Lord.

The body of the message:

Go to any theological seminary library and you will find dozens of books that cover teaching and preaching. If you have never read any, reading one or two can be helpful. They cover many subjects, most of which are related to things that make a spoken message pleasant to listen to. It would be impossible and undesirable to turn this short work into a book on the many techniques of preparing the text of a sermon or teaching.

Teaching is more an art than a science. Even though you have 5 Bible verses, 4 personal incidents, 3 funny anecdotes, 2 famous quotations and a partridge in a pear tree, you may not have a good teaching. Books on preaching often do not say that God has given the gift ministry of a teacher to certain individuals in the Body of Christ. Furthermore, some people who may not be called as teachers in the Body teach better than others. Great teaching is a combination of natural ability, training, experience, and something that springs forth from the relationship between the teacher and the Master, who is Jesus Christ. Develop your relationship with the Lord, and you will find your teachings improve. Just because teaching is a natural ability does not mean that instruction and practice cannot improve it. They can. Also, someone who struggles with teaching can get better with instruction and practice.

On a practical note, remember that the body of the message contains the point you are trying to make and the reason you are making it. Develop, substantiate, and clarify them. After you outline your teaching, go back and reread it to see if the things in it all contribute to your point and purpose.

Things to avoid:

1. Avoid teaching to please people. It is always great to finish a teaching and look at a sea of smiling faces, but the minister’s desire should be to please Christ and deliver the message the Lord wants delivered. Sometimes this will bless, sometimes convict, sometimes anger (if people are not responsive). Do not get caught up in people pleasing and getting a rush from knowing the audience is emotionally charged. This is not to say that getting feedback about your teaching from the people is unimportant.

2. Avoid wrongly handling the Word of God. This usually happens when we do not do our homework on a subject or we try to teach “something new.” There is a time to teach things that are “new,” but there is still safety in a multitude of counselors. If you are breaking new ground in the Word of God, that particular teaching can wait a few weeks while you get with other knowledgeable ministers and check out in more detail what you are going to say.

3. Avoid going too long. People remember less if they get tired and tune out the teaching.

4. Avoid boring people. Even short teachings can be boring. Make sure your subject gets the attention of the audience. The golden rule of teaching is to have something worth hearing.

5. Avoid being overly upset if people remember little or nothing about what you said. Most people, you included, have heard hundreds and even thousands of teachings in a decade. How many have you heard? How many of those do you remember anything specific about? If someone remembers one thing from your teaching six months down the road, be thankful. The bare fact is that most people listen to sermons to get impressions and feelings. They come to church feeling “down,” and get a boost from the teaching. They remember the boost and that they were blessed to listen, but they often do not remember specifics about the teaching. That is just life. People’s short memory is also a reason to expound the meaning of verses in the Word. If your teaching helps a person understand what the Bible is saying, he will tend to remember that information down the road.

6. Avoid any language, examples, humor, or stories that are inappropriate. Know your audience. If you do not know them, do not take risks with jokes, stories, etc., that might be misinterpreted. The minister of the Gospel exhibits love and the fruit of the spirit; he is good and kind.

7. Avoid inappropriate or distracting clothing. Obviously, this includes immodest clothing that draws people’s attention to your body and not to Christ. However, it includes bold pinstripes or dots that make the audience’s eyes tired when they look at you. It includes clothing that does not fit the venue, such as soiled clothes in a nice setting, or jeans in a “coat and tie” church.

8. Avoid getting a “swelled head” if everything goes right and people are blessed and delivered. Yes, the teaching was the catalyst for people’s deliverance, and you did bring the message, but the work in the heart is the Lord’s. He is the true deliverer. On the other hand, you need to recognize the work you did and accept people’s compliments or thanks in a gracious way, not with, “It wasn’t me, it was the Lord.” If it wasn’t you, then why did you teach? The Bible says that we are co-workers with the Lord (1 Cor. 3:9). Give the Lord credit for his part, and take credit for your part.

9. Avoid including too much in your teaching. It is a teaching, not a book, and people cannot put you on “pause” to organize their thoughts as they can when they are reading a book. Too much detail or extraneous information will actually cause people to lose the point you are making. One of the common sources for the “too much detail” mistake is that when you are preparing the teaching you see something in the Word that you have never seen before. Naturally, that is exciting. Since teaching preparation generally includes at least ten times more information than the teaching itself, it is common that the teacher sees more than he will present. Do not give in to the urge to teach all the “new things” (or even old things) that you have seen just because they are exciting to you. If they fit naturally into the presentation, great. Many times they do not. Remember, a teaching is not about what excites you, it is about communicating Christ to the listeners.

10. Avoid thinking that the subject of your message has to always be “by revelation.” If you walk hand-in-hand with the Lord and pray, he can give you the selection of your teaching by revelation. But sometimes he leaves the choice up to your wisdom (look around you and pay attention).

Charles Spurgeon, one of the greatest pulpiteers Christendom has ever known, and a teacher of many ministers and pastors, wrote: “We ought to be always in training for text-getting and sermon-making. We should constantly preserve the holy activity of our minds. Woe to the minister who dares to waste an hour. A man who goes up and down from Monday morning till Saturday night, and indolently dreams that he is to have his text sent down by an angelic messenger in the last hour or two of the week, tempts God, and deserves to stand speechless on the Sabbath.” (C. H. Spurgeon, Lectures to My Students p. 93).

11. Avoid teaching with a “holy voice.” It so happens that when some people preach they change their voice to make it “holier” or whatever. Speak like you normally talk.

The closing:

It is very important not to drag out the closing. When they come to the close of their sermon, many preachers and teachers suddenly lose confidence that they have delivered their message clearly, so they restate, reiterate, and recap ad nauseam. Close crisply. Remember, all of your recapping will not actually help the long term memory of the audience if your points were not delivered clearly in the body of the message.

You can read the entire article here.

If you have any questions, or would like to learn more about God’s wonderful message, please visit the Truth or Tradition website. You can also keep track of the ministry through their Facebook page, their YouTube Channel, or follow them on Twitter.

Thanks for reading.

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Epcot, Hollywood Studios, Vacations, Walt Disney World

Disney PhotoPass Ordering Tip: Buy the Largest Digital Size

I broke down and bought the insanely expensive family photos that a PhotoPass photographer took of us at both Epcot and Hollywood Studios:

Family Shot - Epcot

Family Shot - Hollywood Studios

What can I say? It’s a once-in-a-lifetime sort of thing because it is HIGHLY IMPROBABLE that any of us will ever go back to Disney World (at least until grandkids come along. *ahem*)

If you order photos from Disney’s PhotoPass option, let me give you a tip:

Order the largest digital copy you can.

For example:

Here are the options that Disney gives you for purchasing the PhotoPass photos.

Hard Copies
Two 4×6’s for $14.95.
Or, one 5×7 for $14.95.

Digital Copies
4×6, a 5×7, or an 8×10 digital copy for $14.95 each.

Here’s my tip: Buy the biggest digital copy you can. If you’re going to pay the same amount anyway, pick the biggest digital copy. Download it, upload it to someplace like Flickr, or simply go to Snapfish (if you have an account with Flickr, it automatically defaults to Snapfish whenever you want to order copies), and order any size copies you want from that 8×10 for WAY less than you would pay for actual copies through Disney.

When you pay the $14.95, you’re also paying for a royalty-free license – which means you have permission to make copies of the picture, you just can’t make copies and then sell it to someone else.

At Snapfish, you can get 4×6 copies for $.09 A PIECE!
5×7’s are $.79 cents a piece and 8×10’s are $2.99 a piece.

So, if you’re going to pay the same price for all sizes anyway, you might as well buy the biggest size available so you can order more prints at a fraction of the cost someplace else.

Cruise 11, Vacations

Cruising on the Carnival Sensation

So we spent two days at Disney World a few weeks back, (Epcot and Hollywood Studios) and when it was time to leave, we were all pretty much wiped out.

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Well. Kevin and I were tired, but the boys were zombies.

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I mean, walking around Disney World for two days was more exercise than either of them had had in the previous six months!

And that’s not being snarky, that’s being honest.

After our two days at Disney World were over, we got up Sunday morning, July 24th, packed up our stuff and went out to wait for the Disney Express shuttle bus so we could hitch a ride back to the Orlando airport.

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To catch a non-existent flight.

Confused? Yeah, so were the good folks at Disney. In fact, we spent 30 minutes trying to explain to them that we didn’t have a departing flight number to give them because we weren’t catching a flight, we just wanted a ride back to the airport. No strings attached, nothing more complicated than that. But you would have thought we were asking them to calculate a direct route to the moon.

After we explained to them that we just wanted a ride to the airport, that we intended to catch a shuttle bus at the airport to take us to Port Canaveral so that we could get on our cruise boat (and when the guy found out it wasn’t a Disney cruise, his enthusiastic voice wasn’t quite so enthusiastic after that – it was pretty funny how much his attitude changed after that, though he was still nice), they set it up.

We could have just called a taxi, but the Express was free (well, not FREE, the price of that “free” ride was included in the exorbitant price tag that comes with going to Disney World) and if we could get out of paying $70 bucks for a taxi ride to the airport, we were going to do it.

(I’m telling you guys, if we ever win the lottery, I’m totally becoming a travel writer because I would ROCK on the “travel for dirt cheap” tips).

So, we get on the Disney Express and it takes us 45 minutes to get to the airport. The bus made two stops – Terminal A and B. We had no idea which terminal we needed to go to in order to catch the cruise shuttle bus but we took our chances and got off at Terminal A. Luckily, we saw a big Carnival Sensation sign and we checked in with very little fanfare.

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(See a pattern here? Yep. We have a lot of pictures of Dude sleeping).

We waited around the airport about another 30 minutes before our bus driver arrived and we loaded up. It took us about another 45 minutes to drive from the airport to the pier. Even though the shuttle busses are expensive, they were totally worth the cost because it was a seamless, stress-free way to get to the pier. We didn’t have to worry about taxi drivers, or how much it would cost us, or if he/she would stiff us and ask for more than it really cost to drive us there, or putting up with a bad driver who would make us car sick and it was MUCH more comfortable riding in a spacious, air conditioned bus than having to cram all four of us into a hot, sticky, dirty taxi.

We will definitely pay the transportation cost next time, too.

We’ve never taken a cruise out of Port Canaveral before and there were two other boats waiting to depart, too.

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I believe one of them was a Royal Carribean and the other was Disney.

*Side Note: We’ve never sailed on any other cruise line than Carnival – this will be our fourth cruise with them. Though we’ve been very happy with Carnival, I think next year Kevin and I are going to pick a different cruise line simply for variety, if for no other reason. We would also like to sail on a cruise line that is catered a bit more to adults as well. Not that we have a problem with sailing with children, we don’t, but since it’s going to just be me and Kevin next time, we’d like something a little more … sophisticated, if that’s the right word.

Port Canaveral is not the prettiest port we’ve ever sailed out of. It’s strictly functional, there’s not a lot to see. So we didn’t take as many Bon Voyage pictures like we usually do this go-around.

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However, it WAS cool to be able to see Kennedy Space Center in the distance and it only reaffirmed our desire to visit it someday. (That had actually been our original plan – to visit Kennedy Space Center, spend the night and catch the boat the next day. But somewhere along the planning stage, I mentioned Disney World and it sort of took off from there).

We actually boarded the boat several hours before we sailed, so by the time we went back on deck to leave port, we had a pretty good idea where everything was.

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The only problem was, remembering where everything was. The Sensation is smaller than the boat we sailed last year (Valor) but for some reason, we seemed to be more lost on this boat than we were last year. We kept getting turned around and it wasn’t until the LAST day of the cruise did we really start feeling comfortable getting around. HA!

The boys were relieved to be on the boat and away from Disney World.

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It’s not that they didn’t have a good time, it was just SO HOT and they thought it was pretty kiddie-ish.

(“I TOLD you, mom.” Yeah. Jazz told me that about 5,000 times in those two days).

We were finally able to check out our room. (They block off the cabins while they finish cleaning them so you have to walk around the boat with any luggage that you carry on yourself. The bigger pieces of luggage are checked in when you first arrive and the stewards place them outside your cabin door several hours after departure).

We had portholes!

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We’ve never had portholes before. We were pretty excited about that.


(Sorry about the video quality, or lack thereof – Blech. The settings on the camera screwed up).

Okay, KEVIN AND I were pretty excited about that.

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We always book a separate cabin for the boys. It’s more expensive but SO WORTH THE MONEY. They can do their own thing, go to bed when they want, sleep in as late as they want and we can do our own thing. If you ever cruise with teenagers, seriously, book them their own cabin. You’ll thank me later.

One thing about cruise ships that always amuses me, is the tacky decor. Seriously. Look at the carpet compared to the furniture.

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WTH? But tacky … somehow works on a cruise ship, I think.

One of THE best things about cruising? Is the non-stop food.

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The main dining area is where everyone is instructed to wait when you first board a cruise ship – the Lido deck – where the FOOD is. Because by the time you board a ship, it’s lunch time and you’re hungry. Which works out great, because you can’t really DO anything else until your room is done and before the ship leaves dock. (The casino and shops don’t open until you leave port because if they open up before leaving port, they have to pay taxes on their profits).

One of the things I dislike about first boarding a boat is the sheer number of people in one place at one time.

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Again, you sort of have to endure it because there’s really no where else to go while you wait for your room to be ready. But the crowds thin out considerably after the boat sets sail and getting around the ship is much more manageable.

This cruise was a little different. Usually, the first day we’re at sea while we travel to our first port. But since this was a four-day cruise, we didn’t have that luxury. We set sail Sunday and were at Freeport, Bahamas on Monday. Then we were in Nassau, Bahamas on Tuesday and we had a day at sea on Wednesday.

One of the traditions we’ve started, is playing cards.

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We went onto the entertainment deck (that’s the deck that has all of the clubs, the casino, the shops and the hangouts for the kids) and we listened to a live band while playing cards. We heard a few people, as they passed us, say, “Now that’s a good idea.” So there’s no telling how many families will start up their own card-playing tradition.

What can I say? We’re trend setters! Ha!

Kevin and I LOVE the days at sea because it gives us a chance to find a deck chair in the shade and relax. We usually read or nap and it’s HEAVENLY because it’s just so relaxing breathing in all that fresh air and peaceful to look out at nothing but ocean.

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What can I say? We’re DIE HARD cruisers. If Kevin and I can swing it, we’re going to try and take a cruise every year because it really is the BEST way to travel and see the world – in our humble opinion.

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Next: Freeport, Grand Bahamas

Life-condensed

Dressing Up the Guitar

Quick: This guitar looks like the guitar of a famous rock-n-roller from the 80’s.

Who is it?

If you guessed Eddie Van Halen …… YAY! You ROCK my socks!

*high five*

Kevin’s band, Midnite Thunder, has a gig this weekend and the place they’re playing at is hosting an 80’s night. Which is perfect since Kevin’s band plays 80’s music. But Kevin had the bright idea of using his guitar as part of his costume. So, he grabbed some tape and started playing around keeping Eddie Van Halen’s guitar in mind.

And he ended up with the guitar you see pictured above.

Pretty cool, right? (He’s so creative).

Now if we could only find him a square-tipped tie and funky plastic glasses, he would be set.

(And speaking of the 80’s, I would have DIED for hair like this back then. The bigger and rattier, the better. Whatever. Don’t EVEN deny that’s not cool. Ha!)