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Weekly Podcast – August 10, 2011


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Wow. Sorry for the length. I knew it was running long, but 20 minutes??

Ouch.

But this is me. I get started on something and it’s hard to shut me up.

One correction: I think I said something about 43% of people being unemployed. Whoa. Obviously, that’s not right. I think the 43% stat is the percentage of people under qualified to find work in our country. (Which would obviously be a direct result of our crappy educational system). That’s not the unemployment percentage. Wow. Can you imagine unemployment at 43%??

Uh, let’s not imagine that.

Here are the links to the articles I mentioned in today’s podcast:

Is Obama Smart? A case study in stupid is as stupid does

Wisconsin Republicans Hold On to Senate Majority in Contentious Recall Election

Thanks for listening. Be safe.

P.S. I used this microphone for the podcast, in case you’re in the market for one. It works pretty good and it’s reasonably priced!

P.S.S. I gathered, from the little that Dude told me, that the interview went okay. I would have loved to be a fly on the wall when the gal was talking to him just to see how he conducted himself. He said it only lasted ten minutes, which tells me that he probably won’t get the job. (I mean, a short interview time is not necessarily an indicator that the interview went badly, but in my experience, short interviews are not generally a good sign). I would never tell him this, but I hope he doesn’t get this particular job. It’s quite a drive away from home and he can do better, in my opinion. However, if they offer him a job, he’ll take it with the intention of continuing to look for a better job down the road.

Abundant Life

Audio Teaching: Truth Matters: Part One

by Dan Gallagher
Truth Matters
We believe that there is such a thing as absolute truth. We also believe that the very concept of absolute truth is under attack. Truth Matters is a series of teachings in which we will examine the existence of truth, seek to discover what truth is, and learn what it means to walk in the light of truth.

Introduction
As we enter the 21st century, the concept of truth is more and more under attack. Douglass Grothius states clearly in his book, Truth Decay, that “Truth Decay is the cultural condition in which the very idea of an absolute, objective and universal truth is considered implausible, held in open contempt or not even seriously considered.” In this introductory teaching, Dan Gallagher uses practical examples to powerfully communicate our need to explore both the role of truth and the impact of error in our everyday lives. Dan sets forth an overview of this teaching series and begins with the foundational need to be a truth seeker.

Part One: Truth Seekers
This teaching, Truth Seekers, explores in detail what it means to be a truth seeker, the value of truth, the price one must be willing to pay for truth, and the qualities that are common to all truth seekers. The listener will also thrill to learn how available it is to find and know the truth, and discover the relationship between wisdom and truth. The study concludes with a few examples of genuine truth seekers and why truth appears to be hidden, yet easy to find.

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At the Moment, Band

Band, Podcast, Pushy Parents

Jazz has been banished to the garage. He was getting on my nerves and I couldn’t take it anymore. I’m sure he’s hot and it’s stuffy out there but TOO BAD – feel the wrath of MOM.

Okay, not really. He IS out in the garage, but we had nothing to do with it. He’s out there practicing his saxophone because today was the first day of band camp and since he’s sectional leader, he has to set … what? You didn’t hear?

Yep. Jazz is SECTIONAL LEADER. *goofy grin*

Which really simply means, he’s in charge of the entire saxophone section. Which, with the incoming freshmen, is at a whopping SIXTEEN. (Including Jazz). Yes ya’ll, 16 freaking saxophones.

Can I get a “HOLLA?” Woot-woot

It’s because saxophones are ‘DA BOMB’, that’s why. Everybody wants to play it.

Actually, it’s quite possible they won’t end up having 16 saxophones when school starts. Some of the kids drop out when they figure out how hard marching band is, and the band director might ask some of them to play instruments in areas that need them – but for now, he’s in charge of making sure every saxophone player knows his/her part so they can kick butt in competitions.

Jazz has been all business since coming home from camp today. He spent a few hours transferring his dot schedule (please don’t ask me to explain what that is, it’s in essence, well, look at that picture – it’s a marching plan and it tells the kids where they’re supposed to be at all times during their show. There’s some sort of app that he has on his iTouch that he can transfer the schedule to so when he has to refer to it, he can just pull out his iTouch instead of carrying around a stack of papers. Cool, right?), and he’s practicing the music so he can “set a good example, mom.”

That’s my boy. Show em who’s boss. (Only don’t be TOO cocky, no one likes a know-it-all, in-your-face, I’m-better-than-you sort of figure head).

The band is also collecting canned goods to donate to a food charity, so Jazz and I will make a trip to the store after camp tomorrow and pick up some stuff. I also need to buy more bacon and eggs because we’re been MAKING our boys eat a big breakfast every day. We’re doing that because we’re concerned. I don’t know how they did it, but our boys have lost weight these past weeks and they both look malnourished. No seriously, they are skinny as rails and Kevin and I are both a little freaked out with how skinny they’ve gotten.

Also? Dude has been drinking coffee. I haven’t been buying him Mountain Dew (he just drinks it late at night, making him stay up all night and AARGH – not while he’s living IN OUR HOUSE he’s not!), so in order to get his caffeine fix, he’s been drinking coffee. It’s really weird drinking coffee with my son. It’s like he’s a grown up … sort of. (In my dreams – patience, Karen, patience).

*Jazz just told me that he’s part of a quartet. Apparently, he, and three other saxophonists (that word sounds funny) will separate themselves from the group at some point in the show, come up to the front and play a solo, only … there’s four of them and … oh, you know what I mean. He said they had to try out for the part and he made it . Have I mentioned I’m fiercely proud of this kid??

They’re having an ice cream social next Tuesday night and the parents get a chance to hear what they’ve been practicing on. I’ll take some pictures.


I have an appointment to get my teeth cleaned tomorrow. *GULP* I haven’t been to the dentist in … oh gosh, a few years. My teeth are a bit sensitive when I bite down so I’m thinking either I’ve lost a little filling, or maybe I have some food caught up in there and it’s decaying. I usually put these things off, but I figure the longer I wait, the worse it’ll get and the more expensive it will likely be which … OUCH. We don’t have dental insurance anymore.

Yeah.


I got a lot of work done today. And in between all of that productivity, *ahem*, I played around with putting a podcast together. I want to start posting a podcast starting this Wednesday just to break up the blog monotony. I’m getting bored, I’m sure YOU’RE getting bored. (Listen to me, talking as if I’m the ONLY blog ya’ll read all day long. HA!)

What am I going to talk about? Well, brace yourselves … I wanted to talk about something I’m passionate about and if you’ve been reading my blog for any length of time you’re probably a few steps ahead of me – politics.

I KNOW! I’m going where no blogger dares to venture without being blog-crucified.

But here’s the thing – I keep up on this stuff and I get so frustrated because a lot of people don’t and considering our news media is BEYOND biased (they’re basically the liberals’ customized bullhorn), and don’t report on anything (translation: TRUTH), then maybe I can help enlighten people and provide a FAIR analysis of the crazy things going on in politics.

And I will. Try to be fair, that is. It’s hard to be fair sometimes, but I like to challenge myself and besides, not every issue is black and white. A lot of issues are a lovely shade of gray.

At any rate, I hope you’ll listen and if this sort of thing makes your skin itch, then by all means, skip it. I was going to vlog my thoughts but UGH, who wants to stare at my ugly mug for ten minutes while I rant, erhm, DISCUSS the hot topics for the week.

I call them podcasts but really, I’m just making MP3’s and posting them online. It’s pretty easy to do, here’s what I’m doing/using in case you’re curious.

I downloaded Audacity – it’s free and pretty much rocks my socks off.

The only problem with Audacity is, it doesn’t automatically convert the files into MP3’s – you have to download a plug-in program that Audacity recognizes and uses to convert the files into MP3’s.

Still with me?

The plug-in program is called LAME MP3 Encoder. (CAREFUL! The actual download you want is down a ways on the page – it’s NOT the big download button you see, though you could use that for the files listed. But the Audacity file is different and you will need another program for that, so keep scrolling and read before you click on anything. Even though these programs are free, they sort of trick you in order for you to download all sorts of extra “tools” you don’t really need and only serve to clog up your computer, so please, read and make sure you’re installing only what you want. Also, even though I ran a virus scan on these files and they were clean, I would recommend you do the same, just in case. Actually, you should ALWAYS run a scan before you install any online program onto your computer).

After you have these programs installed, all you need is a mic, click the record button in Audacity, make your recording, “export” it into an MP3, (the LAME Encoder will convert it for you), and then all you have to do is upload it to your server. (We have a private web host that we don’t do a lot with, so I’ve been storing our audio files there and inserting the URL into the wordpress audio player to play on this blog).

All of this sounds complicated, but really, it’s not. Just take your time and read everything and you’ll be fine.

Anyway, I’ll be posting my first “podcast” this Wednesday so stick around!


Dude update: He’s been filling out applications like crazy. He’s been keeping a list of where he applies and the date so he can follow up in a few weeks if he doesn’t hear anything.

Kevin has really been pushing him to put some applications out there and I pray to God he has actually been putting them out there and not SAYING he’s been putting them out there – he’s been applying online. So, we’re sort of taking his word for it. But if he doesn’t hear anything, we’re going to make him print out the applications and actually walk into these places and turn them in – even if it means we (actually Kevin) has to drive him those places and watch him turn them in.

This kid is getting a job if it kills us.

Since Kevin and I are working out of the office and Jazz is at band camp, Dude has been bored and lonely at home by himself. We’re hoping this also motivates him to DO something. In the meantime, he’s not going to sit home and do nothing, so we told Dude tonight that he’s going to be our housekeeper until he gets a job. He gets to do all the household chores (thereby freeing Kevin and I up from having to do it on the weekend) and we’ll teach him how to cook, too, so he can possibly cook us dinners, too.

To my surprise, he actually liked this idea. (Again, I think he’s getting a little bored and having something to do sounds pretty good right about now). This will also teach him the skills he’ll need whenever he gets out on his own.

I also suggested (told) Dude that since Jazz has an hour and a half break during band camp (I know, that’s a LONG lunch break, isn’t it?) that he could pick Jazz up for lunch on Wednesday and take him to Wendys (which is very close to the school). That will get him out of the house and give Jazz a break away, too. Plus, it will make them feel all grown up – eating out together without mom and dad.

We’re such pushy parents, aren’t we? 😀

Life

More Random Crap About Me

You can find the first 75 things about me on this page.

76. I love coffee.
77. I love chocolate.
78. Neither likes me too well.
79. But I don’t care – it’s worth the pain.
80. I hate seafood.
81. I love chicken.
82. I could easily be a vegan.
83. Red meat makes me gag sometimes.
84. I have a hot temper.
85. I also cool off fairly fast.
86. Unless it’s serious,
87. Then I hold a grudge.
88. For a long time.
89. I like my in-laws.
90. I have 12 nieces and nephews.
91. I love walking on my treadmill.
92. I watch movies while walking.
93. I hate to write.
94. But I feel compelled to do it.
95. I never know what I’m going to write,
96. Until I start writing.
97. My goal is to publish a novel.
98. But if I don’t, I’m okay with that.
99. I will leave my mark on the world.
100. One way or another.

Hey! I see you over there snoozing. Wake up! I’m interesting, dang it!

Okay. I’m not. Thanks for visiting anyway.

Can We Talk?, Parenting

Are People Being Too Sensitive About This Ad?

So this ad from Land’s End apparently has some mothers up-in-arms:

They say it’s too suggestive and provocative – the way the girls are standing, the way the boys are looking at each other as if to say, “hubba hubba.”

And I’m having a hard time … seeing it. Maybe I’m missing something, but other than the lollipop (which could be construed as suggestive given how the girl has it in her mouth, which, okay, I can buy that, I guess), what’s the big deal?

I have a bigger problem with the girls’ clothing more than the way they are standing. Do girls that age really need to wear clothing that short? (Don’t even get me started on shortie-shorts and mini-skirts that hardly cover the pubic bone). And given the way the girls are standing, doesn’t that length just make it look even more inappropriate?

But as far as the poses, I really don’t have a problem with it. It just looks to me like the girls are being sassy (actually, the girls look like they are giving each other fake “I’m being nice, only I’m not” smiles) and the boys look mischievous – like they’re plotting, telepathically, to take away their backpacks or something.

In other words, the boys are getting ready to torment the girls because they think they’re cute and that’s how boys show girls they like them at that age and the girls are trying to pretend they don’t notice the boys but are very aware of their presence, hence the flirty, cutesy poses.

Normal girl-boy interaction, in my opinion.

I just don’t see anything that outrageous about this picture that warrants contacting Land’s End and making a huge fuss about it.

Though after this mother (and perhaps others, I don’t know), complained, Land’s End did take the lollipop away and post this picture instead:

(That wasn’t good enough, I guess, because they’re still complaining).

Maybe I would think differently if I hadn’t just read about the sexualization of THIS 10-year old girl.

Now THAT, my friends, is clearly wrong. Making our children look like grown-ups and posing in revealing clothing and in provocative poses all to sell a magazine is CLEARLY wrong. When you compare the pictures from this article with the picture above, well, there’s really no comparison.

(Or maybe I’ve gotten so desensitized that I don’t even see it anymore. Lord, I hope not).

But I understand being sensitive to this issue because I completely agree, that as a whole, the fashion industry has been steadily working toward making it seem like it’s normal for kids to act more like adults, and to wear more revealing clothes at a younger age which is CLEARLY NOT ACCEPTABLE, on any level. And I agree, we need to stamp out this “trend” immediately. Our kids grow up way too fast today as it is, we certainly don’t need companies helping to speed up the process. (And that’s not even touching on how that affects our children when it comes to body issues, etc).

Then again, parents need to stop buying too-short-revealing-inappropriate clothing for their tweens, too. If no one buys the product, then they naturally go away. That’s how it works in business – no profits, no products.

Of course, it’s easy for me to say that because I don’t have girls and I have never had to deal with the whole trying to buy appropriate clothing for girls issue – maybe finding appropriate clothing for girls is harder than I think it is?

But that’s just my two cents, for what it’s worth.

What do you think?

Are people being too sensitive about this ad? Am I missing something?

Abundant Life

Teaching: Confessions of a Homeboy

Every Sunday I provide videos and valuable links to the Truth or Tradition teachings. We’ve been following the Truth or Tradition teachings for many years now and they have truly blessed our family. We have found peace and happiness through our beliefs and we walk confidently for God. My hope, by passing on this information to you, is that what you find here, or on the Truth or Tradition website, will guide you to a better, more blessed and abundant life.

If you would like to read my views on religion and how we got started with the ministry, you can read this.

Let’s get started:

The other day I was talking with a good friend when he said, “I have to confess, I guess I’m a homeboy.” I was a little confused, not really knowing what he meant. I knew that “Homeboy” is a slang term sometimes used by the younger generation when they refer to their good friends. The problem was that I am in my mid-fifties and so is my friend, and I am not really used to hearing one of my friends use that term. Then it hit me—he was referring to his affection and fondness for our local home church, meaning that he really prefers the intimate home setting instead of the traditional church.

His comment sunk in deeply and caused me to reflect on my fifty-plus years of Christian experience. I was raised in a large denominational setting with an emphasis on ceremony and tradition, and I admit that I still have a fondness for stained-glass windows, incense, and Gregorian chanting. I left that system more than three decades ago and have since experienced a wide range of meeting, preaching, and praise and worship styles, which I love. Given my exposure to such great diversity, I must confess that, like my friend, I am a homeboy at heart. So what exactly is it that I find so attractive about a home fellowship?

A few years ago we decided to start Sunday morning church services at our Camp Vision. Like most traditional churches, we have incorporated congregational praise, worship, prayer, a teaching/preaching from the Scriptures, plus other customary practices. Our attendance does not vary much, but does include occasional visitors. For a while I have felt that something is missing, and have been searching my heart to see if there is something I should be doing differently, but I couldn’t put my finger on what I was feeling.

One evening I called to check on someone who had stopped coming to church about a month earlier. He confided that he was feeling isolated and alone, and that church was not working for him. He said he “needed to feel a greater connection to others.” I knew instantly that he was expressing the exact same thing I was longing for.

I know there is a time and a place for large congregational meetings. Large meetings can serve a godly purpose, but there is also a need for smaller gatherings. The answer was not to shrink our Sunday church services into a home, but to add some weekly home meetings. We knew we needed to provide lots of time and space for heart connection, so we decided to start each night with a community meal, a “communion” if you will. Lori and I launched our Wednesday night home church with Jesus’ promise that “…where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them” (Matt. 18:20).

Knowing that the Lord Jesus has given spiritual gifts to each person who has made him Lord, we decided to focus on the uniqueness of everyone in the fellowship by emphasizing our individual gifts. In fact, we tell everyone to come prepared to participate with a gift, which can be a psalm, a sharing, a blessing, a prayer, or an act of service. It is great to see how the Lord works through each person in his or her own special way. He is the center of our meeting, and the Word of God is always our rule for faith and practice.

Last week one person opened by sharing how he/she was hurting about the recent death of a young person he/she knew. Another spoke up and admitted that he/she too knew the deceased but had never seized the opportunity to lead him to Christ. That led to our praying for comfort followed by a discussion on the Hope. Someone else shared about receiving the financial answer to a long season of prayer. Lori and I shared that we have recently had some family setbacks that require us to provide additional help with three of our grandchildren (ages 2, 3, and 4). Another said she had been praying for part-time work, and it turned out that she was an answer to our prayer for help with the grandkids. I have always said the Lord specializes in making one move that answers multiple calls, somewhat like tossing up one stone and hitting ten birds. I reminded everyone of Nehemiah’s words, “…Don’t be afraid…Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome…”(Neh. 4:14). Then, knowing some of the deep needs of everyone, we had reason to unite in prayer, praise and worship, song and encouragement.

Our home church is an ongoing experiment of living out the love of Christ. We do not follow a set program, or have a teaching, but something is always taught. We focus on whatever we perceive the need to be, and allow everyone time to present the gift of themselves. It may be an evening of prayer, song, or healing, but our home church is always a time of togetherness and heart connection. I believe I have found what my heart was missing. Like my friend, I too must confess, I really am a “homeboy.”

If you have any questions, or would like to learn more about God’s wonderful message, please visit the Truth or Tradition website. You can also keep track of the ministry through their Facebook page, their YouTube Channel, or follow them on Twitter.

Thanks for reading.

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