
Hello! My name is Karen and welcome! I’m a mom to two young men. I’ve been married to the same wonderful, patient, thoughtful and generous man (Kevin) for 35 years.
I used to work full time in a healthcare clinic (12 years) before moving to the precertification dept and work from home now – it’s my “day” job. I squeeze in family time and blogging in between all of that. (Okay, I really spend the majority of my “down” time watching gamers on Rumble or searching writing-related content).
We converted a cargo trailer into a camper and I guess we’re campers now! (Since going on cruises was put on hold because of the COVID crap).
I graduated from college with a B.S in Technical Writing – so I’m a wordy know-it-all, as well as a minor in creative writing – so don’t always believe what I write. *wink*
I believe in Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Writing Well. (I also believe in our Constitution – Don’t Tread on my Rights, Yo).
I can be snark-a-licious, but only when provoked or when confronted with ignorant, ill-informed knuckleheads.
I’ve been blogging (on and off, mostly off) for…. how many years…? (I’ve lost track, quite honestly).
I also have a lot to say about nothing.
Brace yourself.
I really hope your day gets better. I didn’t want to sound harsh. They will understand eventually. Cheer up!
Here’s an idea. Let them volunteer for a few hours for a couple of weeks at an animal shelter. That way they can see and understand the responsibility of caring for an animal. If they still are pushing the issue of adopting a pet after that, then sit down with everyone and reconsider.
I know, you’re right, Heidi. You really are.
But ARGH! I feel so selfish!!! 😦
Karen,
If you feel this strongly about having and caring for a pet, you don’t need one. I have read your posts for several days now and you are just going to make yourself and your family miserable if you continue with this. My parents refused to allow me to have a pet (other than fish) while I lived under their roof. They are not pet lovers. My mom especially. My dad loves my two dogs, because they are mine and in my home, not his. I did not get my first dog until after I was married. He’s my child and is treated as such as is my other dog. But if you are freaking out over slobber and etc. you don’t need to have a dog or any other animal. You need to explain this to your children and husband, so that they can understand why you feel the way you do. They may think you selfish and etc., but in the long run, it will be better for them, yourself and any future animals. Let them have their own animals once they are out of your house and they are their own responsibility.
It’s just like having a car. It’s not yours until you have to pay for the gas, insurance, taxes and loan payments and the loan is in your name. It’s your responsibility not someone else’s. You don’t appreciate something until it is yours.
Don’t get an animal.. if you can’t give it the time, attention and most importantly the love it deserves.