Abundant Life

Teaching: Let’s Meet Together For Good

Every Sunday I provide videos and valuable links to the Truth or Tradition teachings. We’ve been following the Truth or Tradition teachings for many years now and they have truly blessed our family. We have found peace and happiness through our beliefs and we walk confidently for God. My hope, by passing on this information to you, is that what you find here, or on the Truth or Tradition website, will guide you to a better, more blessed and abundant life.

If you would like to read my views on religion and how we got started with the ministry, you can read this.

Let’s get started:

People are communal beings. Loneliness is a horrible feeling, and it is very disconcerting and uncomfortable to be isolated. This is so universally true that many people hide what they really believe or how they really feel about something just so they will be accepted in a group. There are studies that confirm that people who are connected with others are generally healthier and better adjusted in life than are people who have no close friends or social network to support them.

There are so many wonderful benefits to getting together as a group of Christians that it is easy to see why Christian gatherings and church meetings have been a vital part of Christian life since the time of Christ. Regularly getting together with other Christians is modeled and encouraged over and over again in the New Testament. At Spirit & Truth Fellowship, we encourage Christians to participate in regular gatherings, be they in homes, church buildings, offices and places of work, or wherever.

The cultural flow of the times we live in today is for people to do things alone. We listen to our iPods or MP3 players alone, walking along with little plugs in our ears. We bank at an ATM machine instead of interacting with a teller. We get gas at the pump without going in and paying someone at the sales counter and we can even check out our own groceries at the “self check out” lane. Sadly, many families have even given up dinner time together, often replacing it with “watch TV and eat” time. Over time, many have gotten used to doing things alone, resulting in people often being less socially skilled. Thus, starting and maintaining a conversation is becoming more difficult and conflicts more painful. Today, more than ever, is a time for Christians not to be conformed to the culture but to really work on connecting with one another and to develop social skills that support fulfilling interaction.

In spite of our encouragement to meet, however, we must make sure our meetings are beneficial and good. Paul had to write some very harsh reproof to the church at Corinth, and some of the harshest is in chapter 11.

1 Corinthians 11:17
In the following directives I have no praise for you, for your meetings do more harm than good.

Wow! After all the encouragement in the Bible about getting together, this verse is like a splash of cold water. When the Corinthians were meeting together, their meetings were actually doing more harm than good. God does not want, and has never wanted, people meeting together for meeting’s sake, as if just going to the meeting won us favor with God. In the times of Isaiah people were gathering at the Temple to worship, but their hearts were not right before God. God rejected their gathering, accusing them of “trampling my courts.” In essence, God was saying, “Get off my grass!”

Isaiah 1:12
When you come to appear before me, who has asked this of you, this trampling of my courts?

God goes on to say that the “religious” things the people were doing were not helping them.

Isaiah 1:13-15
(13) Stop bringing meaningless offerings! Your incense is detestable to me. New Moons, Sabbaths and convocations—I cannot bear your evil assemblies.
(14) Your New Moon festivals and your appointed feasts my soul hates. They have become a burden to me; I am weary of bearing them.
(15) When you spread out your hands in prayer, I will hide my eyes from you; even if you offer many prayers, I will not listen.

Thankfully, later in the chapter, God says that if the people change He will once again accept their worship and the people will prosper. Isaiah’s words to the people of his time, as well as Paul’s words to the church at Corinth, should startle us into the realization that not all meetings are good meetings, whether they were held in the Temple in Jerusalem or a house-church in Corinth. We need to understand what makes a meeting valuable or harmful, and work to be part of meetings that are a blessing to God and the people.

In Isaiah’s day, one of the primary problems was that the people had blended the pure worship of God with pagan superstitions and idolatry. The people’s lives were “full of superstitions,” they “practice divination” (Isa. 2:6), and “their land is full of idols” (Isa. 2:8). Furthermore, people did not take care of each other, but oppressed the poor and weak (Isa. 1:17 and 23). During Paul’s time, the meetings were exaggerating the social divisions that already existed in the Roman culture, and the richer and stronger Christians were not helping the poorer and weaker ones (1 Cor. 11:18-22).

Christians are to love and support each other, and according to Scripture, one of the reasons to get together is to “spur one another on toward love and good deeds” (Heb. 10:24). Thankfully, God has given us His Word to help us determine what constitutes a good meeting and who is a good leader to follow. Notice that in the Old Testament there is no “list” of character qualities a Levite or Priest should have before the people came to the Temple. That is because the Levites acquired their positions by birth, and people were supposed to worship at the Temple no matter who was priest. Things are different in the New Testament. God tells us specifically that a leader must have certain qualities, including being above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money, managing his own family well, not a recent convert, and he must also have a good reputation with outsiders (list taken from 1 Tim. 3:1-7).

Just as the leaders we follow should be knowledgeable people with godly character, the meetings we attend should help us to be holy and effective in our own ways of serving God. That means our meetings should cause us to be uplifted, live more dedicated and godly lives, challenge the sin in our lives, give us increased vision as to what we can accomplish as Christians, elevate the importance of family and friends, help us reach out to others with the good news, etc.

It is not likely that in any group of Christians everyone will believe exactly the same way, and God has certainly equipped us for different kinds of service. Thus, just because some differences exist inside any particular group, this does not mean that the meeting does more harm than good. However, equipped with Scripture, holy spirit, and wisdom, most Christians can sense when a meeting he or she is attending is doing more harm than good. Some people remain in those meetings anyway, generally because they have been convinced that it is wrong for them to leave. There is no need for Christians to stay in meetings that do more harm than good. Our lives are a great gift to us and to the world, and God created us in Christ to do good works. We need to be aggressive in searching out meetings where we can grow and thrive, and which will help us to fulfill our God-given services and callings. Thankfully, there are usually many opportunities for Christians to meet if we take the time to pray and look around at what is available. Let’s meet together—for the good of God, His Son, ourselves, other Christians, and the world.

If you have any questions, or would like to learn more about God’s wonderful message, please visit the Truth or Tradition website. You can also keep track of the ministry through their Facebook page, their YouTube Channel, or follow them on Twitter.

Thanks for reading.

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Saturday Stuff

Not Afraid to Be Patriotic

Sally picked up her purse to leave and then snapped her fingers.

Oh say, can you see my flags from your window?” She craned her neck to look out of the glass.

“I’m pretty sure the Space Station can see your flags,” Lori chuckled.

Sally shrugged. “I wanted to make sure I had plenty of flags to irritate cranky Mr. Benson. Can you believe that man? I don’t even know why he lives in our country if he hates it so much.”

Lori grinned and shook her head. “You’re incorrigible.”

“Just wait,” Sally smirked, “Wally’s flying this baby overhead at exactly noon.”

Freedom

They laughed.

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Write up to 100 words, fact or fiction….

This is a themed writing meme hosted by Jenny Matlock. The goal is to write something that does not exceed 100 words (not including said prompt). The prompt is in italics above.

random stuff

Don’t Listen to This if You’re Feeling Sad

It’ll just make it worse.

I was listening to this on my iTouch this morning and just had to share it with you all. This is one of those songs that make me stop whatever I’m doing, close my eyes, sway from side-to-side (if I had a lighter, I’d totally flick it to life and hold it up) and simply drown myself in the lyrics. It’s one of my favorite songs.

Here are the lyrics to “Tonight I Wanna Cry” by Keith Urban:

Alone in this house again tonight
I got the TV on, the sound turned down and a bottle of wine
Theres pictures of you and I on the walls around me the way that it was and should have been surrounds me
I’ll never get over you walkin’ away

Well I’ve never been the kind to ever let my feelings show
And I thought that bein’ strong meant never losin’ your self-control
But I’m just drunk enough to let go of my pain
To hell with my pride
Let it fall like rain, from my eyes
Tonight I wanna cry.

Would it help if i turned a sad song on
“All by Myself” would sure hit me hard, now that you’re gone
Or maybe unfold some old yellow lost love letters
It’s gonna hurt bad before it gets better
But I’ll never get over you by hidin’ this way

Cause I’ve never been the kind to ever let my feelings show
And I thought that bein’ strong meant never losin’ your self-control
But I’m just drunk enough to let go of my pain
To hell with my pride
Let it fall like rain, from my eyes
Tonight I wanna cry.

oOOo

Don’t let your pride stand in the way of love – life is simply too short.

So tell me friends, what is one of your favorite songs right now?

Friday Fun

Friday (Edible) Craft: 4th of July Treats

Make the 4th of July POP even more with these yummy treats from Family Fun.

Spangled Sandwich Pops

Hands-on Time: 10 minutes
Total Time: 10 minutes
Serves: 1 per sandwich

Ingredients
Mini ice-cream sandwiches
Sprinkles or nonpareils
Colorful cupcake liners

Instructions
First, skewer mini ice-cream sandwiches on popsicle sticks.

Then, press the exposed filling into a plate of sprinkles or nonpareils.

To keep mess to a minimum, serve the pops in colorful cupcake liners


Nation’s B-day Nachos

Give everyone’s favorite Tex-Mex appetizer a patriotic makeover.

Ingredients
1 bag blue corn tortilla chips
Cooking spray
Aluminum foil
Monterey Jack cheese, shredded
Salsa
Sour cream

Instructions
Place blue corn tortilla chips on a foil-covered baking sheet coated with cooking spray.

Sprinkle the chips with shredded Monterey Jack, then bake at 350° for 5 to 7 minutes.

Top the nachos with salsa and sour cream.


Rocket Dogs

These rabble-rousers are a blast to make and eat!

Ingredients
hot dogs
prepared breadstick dough (we used Pillsbury brand)
skewers
cubed cheese
mustard

Instructions
Simply wrap hot dogs in prepared breadstick dough (we used Pillsbury brand) and insert a skewer, letting it protrude at the top.

Bake the dogs according to the dough package’s instructions. Add a triangle of cheese for a topper, tie on a tail made from ribbon or aluminum foil, and squirt on stripes of ketchup and mustard.


Edible Eagles

Send your family’s taste buds soaring with a nest of these bald eagle treats. To make half a dozen, follow the recipe below.

Ingredients
1/4 cup of white chocolate chips
6 large marshmallows
Finely shredded coconut
Chocolate sandwich cookie (we used a chocolate-covered Oreo)
6 Cashews
Black decorators’ gel

Instructions
Melt 1/4 cup of white chocolate chips according to the package directions.

For each bird, drop a large marshmallow into the melted chocolate, using a spatula to coat it well.

Remove the marshmallow from the chocolate and roll it in finely shredded coconut, leaving one end uncovered.

Immediately set the marshmallow, coconut free end down, atop a chocolate sandwich cookie.

Let the chocolate set a bit, then use a toothpick to make a hole in the side of the marshmallow and insert a cashew for a beak.

Finally, add black decorators’ gel eyes


Revolutionary Berries

Rally the kiddie corps to help with thesefun-to-prep bites.

Ingredients
12 ounces white chocolate chips
Strawberries
Blue sugar or edible glitter

Instructions
Melt 12 ounces of white chocolate chips in a microwave according to the package directions (make sure the container and the berries are dry; even a little moisture will alter the texture of the candy).

One at a time, dip strawberries into the chocolate and then into blue sugar or edible glitter.

Set them to harden on waxed paper.

Makes 35 to 45 decorated berries.

You can find more great recipes here.

Have a BLAST this 4th of July! God Bless America!!!

*I was not compensated for passing these recipes on to you. Family Fun is cool. That is all.

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Prompt Fiction

Fiction: A Bump in the Road

“This is the first bad thing I’ve ever done in my life,” Blanche giggled as she looked at the other three women with her in the van. “I swear, any time I do anything bad, even just a little naughty, I get caught. Never fails.”

“When have you ever done anything bad? You’re like … perfect,” Cecile muttered from the passenger seat while squinting to read her iPhone in the dark interior.

“Perfect?” Blanche sputtered in surprise. “Hardly. Would a perfect woman lose her husband to a co-ed? I don’t think so.” She could feel her good mood deflating as an image of her husband having sex with the perky redhead from his sociology class popped into her head. Her shoulders hunched forward in defeat and without being aware of it, she slumped over the steering wheel as if trying to ward off any more disturbing thoughts. Her knuckles whitened as her grip tightened. Bastard.

“Hey now,” Erin said from the back of the van. She leaned forward to place a comforting hand on Blanche’s shoulder. “Remember our agreement? No talking about the ‘jerk who shall not be named.’” She turned slightly to give Cecil a warning look.

Cecile shrugged and issued a huge yawn. “I can’t believe you guys talked me into this. It’s,” she squinted at her phone again, “almost three in the morning. I have to get up in like, three hours!”

“Then don’t go to bed,” Erin said and sat back in her seat. “Just because you’re almost 40 years old doesn’t mean you have to act like it.”

Whitney snorted in amusement next to Erin.

“All right, ladies,” Blanche warned. She reached up to rub her forehead. She shouldn’t have had that fifth (or was it sixth? She honestly lost count) apple martini. She didn’t usually drink at all, but her girlfriends had talked her into going out and once out, it felt so good to dunk her depression into a pretty glass of liquor, at least for a little while. She could feel just a hint of that depression inching back into her mood, its icy fingers leaving cold streaks against her heat-infused cheeks. “There’s no need to pick on Cecile. At least one of us is acting our age tonight.”

Cecile sighed and ran a hand through her short, spiky hair. “I’m sorry. I had a tough week and there’s this new hotshot that thinks he can do my job better than me,” she balled her hands into fists and her entire body tensed.

Blanche shrugged and softened her voice to try and diffuse her friend. Cecile had a terrible temper and she didn’t feel like talking her off the edge at the moment. “Forget it, Cecile. We all have our problems. You girls were nice enough to help me with mine, I’ll return the favor this weekend. In the meantime …” her voice ground to a stop as the van suddenly jostled, swayed and jerked. All four women were rendered speechless for long seconds.

“What the … did I just run over something?” Blanche asked. “There wouldn’t be a speed bump on this stretch of road, would there?” She slowed down and glanced in her side mirror to try and see what she might have hit, but it was too dark to see anything.

“That didn’t feel like a speed bump to me,” Whitney said, her body twisted around so she could see out of the back windows. “I think it was an animal.”

Blanche pulled over to the side of the road and all three women looked at Erin.

Erin was staring out of the side window. “Maybe it was just a log or something,” she said in a very small voice.

“Should I turn around?” Blanche asked.

All of the women were silent as they mulled it over.

Cecile thought: “Great. This is going to take forever and I really need to get some sleep so I can make that jerk look like an idiot to my boss tomorrow.”

Erin thought: “Please, PLEASE don’t be an animal. I can’t handle that right now.”

Whitney thought: “Wouldn’t it be cool if it were a dead body?” She smiled at her thoughts and was thankful no one could see her expression.

Blanche thought: “I’m going to puke and everyone is going to watch. Swell.”

“We better make sure it’s not an animal or anything,” Erin said. “I couldn’t live with myself if we left an injured animal on the side of the road.”

“Right,” Blanche said, swallowing a dollop of bile back down her throat. “Let’s check it out.” She carefully maneuvered the car into a U-turn and slowly made her way back to the spot. She flipped her brights on to help them see. “I hate these country roads,” she mumbled.

“You were the one who wanted to stay off the main roads,” Cecile said.

“Well yeah,” Blanche snapped back. “I don’t want to get a DUI, thank you very much.”

“There!” Erin said while leaning forward and pointing to a dark shape in the road. “That must be what we ran over.”

Blanche’s foot eased off the accelerator and the van inched forward. The shape began to slowly materialize before their eyes as the headlights exposed it.

“Oh my God,” Cecile gasped. “Is that a …” she clapped a hand over her mouth in horror and Whitney finished her sentence for her.

“… a body?!”

Blanche’s foot jumped to the brake and the van jolted to a halt causing all three women to jerk forward in their seats. The vehicle was now only a few feet away from the object in the road. The bright headlights illuminated the shadowy object and all four women sat transfixed as they stared at a tuft of reddish-blonde hair caressing one thin, bare shoulder.

It was definitely a body.


The three words to use in a story this week are:

  • Bump
  • Knuckle
  • Transfix

Thanks for reading.

Can We Talk?

Our Educational System Stinks. I KNOW! Let’s Throw Some Money at It!

AAARGH! NOOOOOO!!

This is my response to the Momversation question: “Are we raising a nation of dumbasses?”

Oh. Where to start.

Let’s start with the video.

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Readers that have been keeping track of my blog for some time will likely know my response to this – I feel like a broken record sometimes, but it bears repeating because no matter how many times you say it, people just don’t seem to get it:

Money doesn’t fix problems, it only makes it more complicated.

I agree with Daphne’s outrage about the money we’re spending in Iraq, Afghanistan and Libya – I think our mission in Iraq and Afghanistan was over a long time ago and apparently not even the White House can tell us what we’re doing in Libya (first declaring that “that Moammar Gadhafi has to go” and setting up the no fly-zone and then saying “”we were going to withdraw” even though Gadhafi was (is) still in power). It’s frustrating enough when America is called upon to serve as a Global police, it’s doubly frustrating when our own government can’t even define what our objective is in the mission.

So yes. I agree money is being squandered on these military operations. I think we need to bring our troops home and let these countries work out their own issues. (Especially since they’re not even thankful for our help to begin with and thwart us at every turn).

BUT. Throwing more money into our education system, right now, is like getting your junk piece of a car detailed when it refuses to start – making it look pretty won’t make it work any better. The problem with our educational system lies within the structure itself.

The entire system needs a complete and thorough over haul before we throw more money at it and hope that somehow fixes it – it won’t. First and foremost, we need to do something about the teachers’ unions. They have a tight stranglehold on our educational system right now so that we can’t really DO anything without running into grievances and lawsuits. As it’s set up now, teachers are in a position to choose to teach or not to teach. They can show up to work every day, refuse to teach our kids and not have to worry about getting reprimanded. They get paid whether they teach or not.

Granted, MOST teachers are not like this. A LOT of teachers are decent, hard-working, people with good intentions, but you and I both know that there are also some pretty terrible teachers out there that take advantage of the system and thumb their noses up at repercussions. It’s nearly impossible to fire a teacher, thanks to the teachers’ unions. Granted, having an organization that watches your back is a good thing, the teachers’ unions have gone too far – they have too much power. They know it, and they abuse it. There is no incentive for these bad teachers to perform to the best of their ability. Why? They’re going to get paid whether they do their jobs or not.

As with any industry, it’s all about competition. If we want good teachers in our schools, then we have to fire the bad ones and replace them with good ones. If teachers have to work to KEEP their jobs, then they will naturally do a BETTER job teaching our kids.

Motivated teachers = well-educated students.

We also need to allow the schools the ability to make their own rules and to spend the money they are granted for the areas they need it most. The government needs to get out of the way and allow the school boards to make those decisions. They know what areas in their district need the most work – give them the freedom to work on those areas.

Cut out wasteful spending. Reallocate funds and restructure existing programs, programs that aren’t working as evidenced by everyone’s complaints that our educational system sucks, and give that money back to teachers. Again, the more incentives teachers have to make more money, the better job they will do teaching our children. Give them an opportunity to make bonuses and it will be evident, pretty quickly, which teachers are motivated to do well and which are not.

Schools need to stop concentrating so much on state tests and concentrate on molding their lessons to help the students. Kids don’t all learn at the same pace, but since the states only grant money to schools who make a certain test score on performance tests, then naturally, that’s what the school’s focus on – making the grade so they can get the money.

Once again, GOVERNMENT IS IN THE WAY OF PROGRESS.

As parents, we need to unite and take an active interest in our children’s education. Too many parents view school as a free babysitter and don’t stay involved in their child’s studies. They don’t teach their children how important school is and how important it is to take it seriously and to respect the institution. And bad teachers? At least for now? Until someone has the balls to actually REFORM our current educational system? Are part of the deal. It’s up to us, the parents, to stay on top of these teachers, to make them accountable and to teach our children how to deal with difficult personalities because assholes? Are everywhere and the sooner our kids learn how to deal with them, the better off they will be.

I’m so sick and tired of people complaining about how this needs more money, or that needs more money. Though money certainly helps motivate and inspire people to do better, it also corrupts and produces greed. No. Our educational system doesn’t need MORE of our money tossed at it (for now), IT NEEDS TO BE REFORMED. It needs to be scrutinized, dismantled, and put back together more efficiently. It needs a strict budget and priorities. After it’s been revamped, THEN let’s see how much money is left over that we can redistribute to areas that really need it.

I bet we’d ALL be surprised just how much money we’ve squandered away over the years as the unions have gotten stronger and at the number of regulations and hoops the government has implemented over the years.

Whenever we have a problem, we all need to STOP yelling for more money. Money doesn’t fix problems, it just complicates problems. A lot of our social structures are out of control because instead of fixing the problems over the years, we’ve just stuck a monetary band-aid on it and called it fixed.

You wouldn’t pay your plumber to stick duct tape on your leaky faucet, you’d expect your plumber to get in there and fix the leak. Same premise.

Wake up, people. Stop throwing money at our problems – WE CAN’T AFFORD ANY MORE FINANCIAL BAND-AIDS.

Abundant Life

Audio Teaching: The Passover: A Sacrifice of Grace

by John Schoenheit
The New Testament tells us that Jesus Christ is our Passover lamb. What should that mean to us as Christians today? What was the Passover, and how do we make it applicable in our lives? This tape by John Schoenheit goes into the book of Exodus and covers some of the more important verses referring to the Passover celebration, the Feast of Unleavened Bread, the death of the firstborn of Egypt, and why Israel had to put blood on their door posts. It also shows how the Passover foreshadowed Jesus Christ, and how we can learn from his sacrifice and live sacrificial lives ourselves.

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