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At the Moment …

… I’m running around with my head cut off today.

8:15 a.m – walked 3.25 miles on the treadmill while using hand weights, arms felt like noodles. (Which doesn’t sound sexy but necessary in order to burn off my flabby grandma fat). Watched Season One, Disk One of the TV series “Bones.”

Verdict? It’s getting better.

9:00 a.m. – wake up Dude, Jazz is already up. (Nothing unusual here. Dude would sleep until 2:00 in the afternoon if allowed and Jazz gets up around 8ish regardless of how much sleep he got the night before).

9:15 a.m. – check on husband – is he comfortable? Does he need a mid-morning snack? Mocha honey?

Yes on the mocha.

9:30 a.m. – Got into the shower.

Died a little. (Ahhhh … nothing like washing that gritty sweat off).

9:45 a.m. – Put on makeup, but not dry hair, and sat in front of my computer, with wet hair, and checked my blog, email, Twitter and waited for my core temperature to cool down.

10:00 a.m. – made beds, checked house temperature (a nearly full-time job now that the temps have been in the 90’s these past weeks), fixed my hair (which means I put it up in a clip and called it done).

Got back on Twitter and posted really asinine tweets.

10:15 a.m. – Hustled Jazz along, prepared to leave.

10:30 a.m. – Arrived at father-in-law’s arch-support store.

Waited for him to finish with a customer.

10:45 a.m. – Watched as he fit Jazz for arch supports. (His feet have really been bothering him, which is understandable considering the boy is on his feet all day, every day what with a summer school PE class and band camp).

11:00 a.m. – Visited with father-in-law while keeping one eye on the clock.

11:10 a.m. – Left store and rushed Jazz to school for his PE class.

11:30 a.m. – Received call from a hungry husband wanting to know where I was and was it time to eat yet?

11:50 a.m. – Arrived at Panera Bread, scarfed down lunch. (Food + pain pill = happy husband).

12:40 p.m. – Picked up prescriptions from doctor (since the pain killer is a narcotic, we had to physically go to the doctor’s office and show ID).

12:50 p.m. – Dropped prescriptions off

1:00 p.m. – Post Office – bought stamps (lucked out – no line!)

1:25 p.m. – Home / Relaxed / Kevin took a quick nap (which only worked out to be about 15 minutes).

2:15 p.m. – Left to go pick son up from summer school.

2:25 p.m. – Arrived at dentist’s office – we’re early and I’m hoping they would see Jazz early. They didn’t.

3:15 p.m.
– Kevin and I left dentist’s office and headed toward rehab center (which is conveniently located a few blocks from the dentist’s office! Win!)

3:25 p.m. – Dropped Kevin off, made sure he had a pain pill to get him through the session, headed back to the dentist’s office to pick Jazz up.

3:40 p.m. – Arrived home.

(PRESENT TIME)

3:47 p.m. – Jazz is now taking a shower.

4:15 p.m. – Jazz and I will leave the house, again, and head to Wendy’s. I will buy him a Crispy Chicken sandwich, a value fry and a water – for $2.15.

4:30 p.m.
– Jazz will scarf down his (pre) dinner, we will head back to the rehab center and pick Kevin up.

4:40 p.m. – Arrive back at the school, wait for Jazz to finish eating, drop him off for band camp.

4:52 p.m. – Kevin and I will arrive back home.

5:00 p.m. – Kevin will start complaining about being hungry.

5:05 p.m – I will prepare dinner (ravioli w/ dinner rolls and broccoli – I will save some so Jazz can eat his [post] dinner when he gets home).

6:00 p.m. – Give Kevin his Coumadin.

6:05 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. – Zone out and relax.

7:05 p.m. – Go tan.

7:35 p.m. – Catch up emails and plan for tomorrow’s blog post.

8:30 p.m. – Kevin and I will leave to pick Jazz up. We will get there too early and watch the kids go through marching drills on the parking lot. (I love this part).

8:55 p.m. – Band director will dismiss kids. Jazz will run in to get his drawstring backpack.

9:10 p.m. – Arrive back home.

9:15 p.m. – Bug Dude because I won’t have talked to him ALL DAY!

Whew!

Thank goodness not every day is like this, but it’s like this during the weeks that Jazz has band camp. But it’s totally worth it because the kid LOVES his music!

So tell me, peeps, how was YOUR day?

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Working Those Legs

So, I tweeted this yesterday:

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And believe it or not, Kevin did it.

He needs to be on his feet as much as possible. The more he walks, the more he works those stiff muscles and the easier it will (eventually) get for him.

We have gone to the mall once. He didn’t walk the entire length of the mall, but he walked quite a ways. He took frequent breaks (sitting on the seat on his walker) and we stopped to buy a pretzel and drink some lemonade.

That was his “reward” for making it all the way down to Auntie Annie’s Pretzels.

His walking improves every day. He’s picking up his feet and no longer shuffling along. He’s still having trouble standing upright entirely, but he’s working on putting more weight on his legs and less on his arms.

He is still experiencing a lot of swelling in his right leg. It looks about twice the size of his left leg by the end of the day. We’re not sure what to do about that and we’re hoping most of it goes away when he stops taking the Coumadin (blood thinner). He has enough Coumadin for another month’s worth and we’re thinking when that runs out, the doctor won’t require him to be on it anymore since the whole reason he was on it to begin with was because he was immobile. And apparently, when your body has been through the trauma that Kevin’s body endured, your blood thickens and gels around your vital organs as a self-preservation tactic.

At any rate, he has retired his wheelchair. He no longer uses it, actually, he flat out refuses to use it anymore.

He’s doing more and more things on his own. He made his own breakfast this morning (and we’re not talking cereal and toast, we’re talking scrambled eggs and sausage) and though it’s hard for me to step back and watch him, it’s necessary. Though Kevin’s attitude has been amazing throughout this whole ordeal, I would be lying if I didn’t admit that there are days (like yesterday), that he just gets sick to death of the whole situation and though I wouldn’t exactly say he feels sorry for himself, he gets very irritable and impatient.

I can totally understand why.

He has two more weeks of physical therapy, well, four sessions. I think we’re going to try and get him on stairs this next go-around, or sometime this week, at any rate. He also REALLY wants to get into his truck. He won’t be driving, of course, but I can certainly drive him around (it would come in handy when he has band practice).

Driving. I should ask the PT’s about when they think he might be capable of driving again. I mean, he can lift his legs and move them now so … the only issue I see is the reaction time. Though I know he’s dying to get back to normal, I think driving will likely be the last thing he attempts – we certainly don’t want to put him, or anyone on the road, in danger.

A little over two weeks before we go to New York. The question is: walker or wheelchair?

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Oil Spill Has Reached Florida

This. Just. Breaks. My. Heart.

(And may I just say – please don’t allow your children to play in oily tar balls. That stuff has GOT to be toxic. Seriously. What is WRONG with people??)

Even though I’m not excusing BP’s part in this horrific incident (and they SHOULD pay and reimburse people for lost wages and to clean up this mess), I honestly don’t see how ANYONE can make excuses for a president that REFUSES to help get this mess cleaned up.

No. Obama didn’t cause this disaster. No. I don’t expect him to personally get down there and suck it up with a straw clean it up (though that might help his public image, which has been sorely damaged by all of this crap – on top of every other disaster generated by this president), but I DO expect him to use his executive authority to authorize every possible alternative and utilize every single offer that comes our way to help get this crap cleaned up. I DO expect him to put aside his political agenda, for one DAMN minute, and give his FULL attention to one of the worst man-made disasters this country has ever seen.

OH. MY. LORD – 2012 can NOT get here soon enough. And hell yes, I’m pissed. Obama, dude, STOP with the “hope and change” man, you’re CHOKING the life out of this country!

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My “Must Do” Summer List

1. Help Kevin graduate from a walker to a cane before September.
2. Get to know Springfield Bloggers
3. Proudly display our American Flag for all to see.
4. Could care less if I offend someone w/ my patriotism.
5. Watch, and worry, while boys set off firecrackers on the 4th.
6. Spray weed killer.
7. Install another air conditioning window unit in kitchen.
8. Even though I have no clue how to do so.
9. Sell our bariatric commode on Craigs list.
10. Promises that our bariatric commode is very clean and hardly used.
11. Sell our shower stool on Craigs list.
12. Promises that shower stool has hardly been used, in excellent shape.
13. Take boys swimming.
14. Whether they want to or not.
15. Because it’s not summer unless you go swimming, at least once.
16. Take Dude to get his Senior pictures taken.
17. Nothing too fancy, but better than something I could do.
18. Design area school websites.
19. With the intent of luring them into wanting to buy them from me.
20. Get a job.
21. Preferably something in technical writing.
22. But a bookstore would be cool, too.
23. Drive Kevin to band practice.
24. Drive Kevin to band gigs.
25. Go to New York w/ wheelchair bound husband.
26. Go on cruise to Canada w/ wheelchair bound husband.
27. Buy PhotoShop Elements Seven (cause it’s cheaper).
28. Learn PhotoShop Elements Seven
29. Beam with pride while watching Jazz’s marching band premiere.
30. Get kids ready for another school year.

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Look! I’m Breathing! (Barely).

I’m still alive. I’ve been super busy taking care of Kevin and haven’t had much energy left to write over here. However, I have been keeping a journal of Kevin’s progress over here, if you’re interested in reading his story.

In the meantime, I need to write MY story. This past three weeks have been one helluva roller coaster ride and I plan on writing about it soon.

But not now. Now, I need to pick kids up from school, get some grocery shopping done, finish a load of laundry and then take dinner back up to Kevin this evening. He gets lonely.

Thanks to all who have sent me well wishes and are praying for us. I can’t even begin to express my thanks and I will be the first to say, your prayers have worked wonders.

Kevin is alive and doing better every day.

Talk to you soon.

God bless.