This is the article I referred to yesterday. It was originally published on my self-hosted blog, November 30, 2006.
We’re either incredibly smart, or incredibly stupid. I haven’t decided yet.
If you haven’t been keeping up with this blog, let me fill you in: this year’s HOTHOTHOT toy is the Nintendo Wii. At least, it is for our boys and judging by the fact that NO ONE in town seems to have any stock and HAS NO IDEA when they might be getting more, the rest of Springfield thinks so too.
Before I tell you what we’ve gone and done (and I’m betting those out there that know me or have been reading my blog for any length of time can guess), let me explain something. I’m a strict mother. I am a controlling person and when it comes to my boys, I’m rather a dictator, if you want the bald honest truth.
As a result, the boys always look to me before answering someone else’s question or they come to me to ask for simple things, like snacks. On one hand, this is a good thing, I can keep track of them. On the other, it’s not because I’m stifling them as people and I need to loosen up and let them grow up (which I’m getting better at).
I have those kids under my thumb. Or, at least I thought so until recently. I think in reality, they have me wrapped around their little fingers.
My husband and I take GREAT pride in trying to make every Christmas memorable for our boys. And every year, without fail, they hug us and tell us that this year “was the best Christmas ever.” It warms a parent’s heart to hear those words, see their glowing, happy faces and know in our hearts that we are providing them with happy memories.
We have great kids, not perfect, but great. They care what we think about them and they strive to do their best because they want to please us. They rarely give us problems, they have compassion and are kind to others, which seems to be an essential ingredient lacking in our youth today. We rarely buy them anything unless it’s a birthday or Christmas. They don’t receive an allowance because we feel if they want something, they can do some extra chores, or work extra hard to bring a grade up and we’ll “pay” them with the item they want.
Considering they don’t receive material items very often, birthdays and Christmases are a HUGE deal to them. The only thing both of them want this year, is a Nintendo Wii. That’s it. And maybe the Zelda game so they will have something other than the sports games that come with the system to play. The Wii’s are not cheap. In fact, if Santa brings them a Wii for Christmas, it will easily be the most expensive gift Santa has ever brought. (Until Christmas 2007 when Santa brought an XBox).
We sat and down and talked to the boys. Santa is not made of money. IF (and we’re talking a big IF because every other gamer child wants one too and no one has them in stock) Santa brings them a Wii, they can’t expect many more presents on top of that.
They don’t care. All they want is the Wii. Oh sure, they’ve put more things on their wish lists, but the bottom line? Screw everything else, they want a Wii.
What’s a parent to do? Every parent out there knows it’s part of our parental makeup to want to please our children. What parent wants to experience that look of disappointment Christmas morning when they didn’t receive the ONE gift they wanted more than anything else? My husband STILL talks about the Christmas he wanted something, more than anything, and didn’t get it. I wouldn’t say it warped him, but it certainly left an impression.
So what did we do, you ask. We bought a Wii on EBay. Yep, we paid a little more than retail for it. Yep, we caved in to our children’s wishes. Yep, they will have another one of the “best Christmases ever.”
We debated back and forth, back and forth, about the logic behind buying on EBay. First, there’s the trust issue. We examined each dealer carefully making sure they had good feedback (we won’t accept anything under 98% positive). We kept on eye on the price. We bid and held our breaths. We had an absolute ball doing it together. We lost one bid by one penny. That’s an experience we’ll talk about for the rest of our lives. We won our bid by one dollar and one penny. We can rest easy (and breathe easy when we actually receive it).
Here’s our rationale for going this route. Is it worth our time to call every retail store in town, every day, sometimes twice a day, to see if anyone has a system? Are we willing to gamble on the fact that IF we find some we’ll be able to drive over there in time to get one? Is it worth our time to stand in line for 12 hours? Is it worth the stress of going through all of this?
No, we decided. It was not worth it to us. We would rather spend the extra money than go through all of that. I realize some of you may feel differently, and that’s fine, but to us, it was worth it. We’re also looking at it as, we’re paying this person for the time he had to spend to get the system (because he claims he DID stand in line 12 hours. His time is worth something, right?)
So, there you have it. We caved. We surrendered. But we can now breathe easier because this means the kids’ Christmas has been taken care of.
We also learned something else by this experience: the couple who EBay together, stay together. 😀
Christmas song #23 It’s Beginning to Look a lot Like Christmas by Harry Connick Jr.
Okay, picture this – you’re trying to entice new readers to your blog. But they only have time to read one of your blog posts. Which blog post would you direct them to? Which of your blog posts really shines and says something about your life? Which blog post are you most proud of? Now take that blog post and 
