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Teaching: Becoming Like Christ

Every Sunday I provide videos and valuable links to the Truth or Tradition teachings. We’ve been following the Truth or Tradition teachings for many years now and they have truly blessed our family. We have found peace and happiness through our beliefs and we walk confidently for God. My hope, by passing on this information to you, is that what you find here, or on the Truth or Tradition website, will guide you to a better, more blessed and abundant life.

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I once heard the famous American radio talk show host, Rush Limbaugh, asked: “If you had to be stranded on a desert island with one man from the history of the world, who would it be?” And he answered, “Jesus Christ.” Good choice, although Rush may have been mostly thinking of the walking on water thing. Limbaugh is a professed Christian, but even the secular world, perhaps unknowingly, daily acknowledges the profound historical impact of the only begotten Son of God. How? Well, actually every time they date a document, with the unspoken “A.D.” understood to follow. Others acknowledge him on the other end of the historical scale when they read the comic strip, “B.C.” And of course, a number of people even invoke his name regularly, albeit some of those when they hit their thumb with a hammer.

Jesus Christ is the most famous man who ever lived, and, given the quality of his life, would no doubt be considered by even some non-Christians as the person they would most want to emulate. Sad to say that even many Christians, those who profess him as their Lord and Savior, doubt that they could ever really be like him. Part of the “Good News” of the gospel of Jesus Christ is that every believer, every member of the Body of Christ, can be like the Lord. In fact, he gave us the example of his life primarily to inspire us to “…walk just as He walked” (1 John 2:6-NKJV). That would be a fantasy were it not for the truth that he also filled us with his spirit to enable us to be like he was and do what he did (John 14:12).

By definition, the word “becoming” indicates growth and change, a “getting from here to there,” if you will. From where I am to where he is, and that involves a path. If “I am the way” just came to your mind, bravo! The word “way” means a path or road, and we know from that verse (John 14:6) that Jesus Christ is the only way to everlasting salvation. He is also the only way to maximizing the benefits of our salvation in this twisted world. Because he blazed a trail of faith to the heart of God, he can and will walk (and run) beside you and me step by step on our individual paths of righteousness. He knows the way to wholeness because he is The Way.

Hebrews 12:1-3
(1) Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, [the examples of those believers set forth in Hebrews 11] let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.
(2) Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
(3) Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.

The Greek word translated “author” in verse 2 above is archegos, and it means “the first one in line in a column or file.” Jesus Christ is the first and only human being who walked a path of complete trust (faith) in his heavenly Father, and by so doing made it possible for us to do likewise. The same word appears in Acts 3:15 (KJV), which calls Jesus “the prince [archegos] of life.” Jesus Christ is the first and only person who ever lived life to the fullest, and now you and I, energized by his spirit within us, can follow suit and “…have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10). And in Hebrews 2:10 (KJV), Jesus is referred to as “…the captain [archegos] of our salvation….” He is the only man who could have cleared and paved the way to everlasting life. Now that path is clearly “marked out” for us, so let us follow in his steps.

As Hebrews 12:2 exhorts, we are to “fix our eyes” on Jesus as we run the race, keeping his sterling example vividly in mind. Our very personal Lord has a personal curriculum of growth for each of us, and he is always right there with us, beckoning us ever forward into greater intimacy with him.

Matthew 11:28-30
(28) “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
(29) Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
(30) For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

I don’t know about you (actually, I do—see Rom. 7:14-25), but there is something in me that, if I allow it to, works against my desire to get close to Jesus. You guessed it—it is the deceitful and disgusting “sin living in me” (Rom. 7:17), and it tries to get me to believe a lot of lies, both about Jesus and about myself. Consider the record in Luke 5:1-9, the first part of which I will summarize as follows:

One day Jesus was preaching the Word on the shore of the Sea of Galilee, and the crowd grew too big to hear him well. He saw a boat and asked the owner, Simon Peter, if he could use it, requesting that he shove out a ways to take advantage of the acoustic benefits of the water carrying his voice. Peter didn’t realize that Jesus intended to rent the boat (“the workman is worthy of his hire”), but after he finished preaching, Jesus told Pete to go into deeper waters, cast out his nets, and he would get some fish. Now Peter may have been thinking, “Well, actually, you’re a carpenter and I’m the fisherman, and we just spent the whole night out there and didn’t catch a thing. But hey, for you I’ll go through the motions.” “Holy mackerels!” They had so many fish in the net that they had to get the other boat to come over and help haul them in.

And then Peter, still on the boat with Jesus, said the logical, obvious thing: “Wow! Thanks so much for the tip. Take some fish home to the family.” Nope. He said: “Jesus, would you please get off the boat?” Why, because Jesus was a sinful man? No, Peter said: Because “…I am a sinful man!” Like Peter, when I get close to the Lord Jesus, I can clearly see the gap between what he is like and what I am like, and I am tempted to separate myself from him so as to lessen the frustration in seeing how far I have to go to close the gap. Sure, because if, as in Peter’s situation, Jesus went far enough away, he’d be almost indistinguishable, and Peter could deny reality and say that he looked a lot like Jesus. No, we must “fix our eyes” on Jesus, that is, fine tune our perspective of him so there is no distortion in our perceptions of his grace, his mercy, and his love. When we do, we will run toward him as the only source of deliverance from our sinful nature, and he will help us throw off the sin that so easily entangles us. Amen. [For further study read Getting in Touch with Jesus.]

OK, so how do you fix your eyes on Jesus? You could go to a different motel each night and read their Bibles, but it would be much cheaper to buy your own Bible, study it continually, and act in obedience to God’s directives therein. Jesus embedded the written Word of God so deeply into his heart that he flawlessly represented his Father in word and deed. Thoughts are the seeds of our words and deeds, and the Son of God always fixed his mind on the Word of God. No matter what the situation or what the temptation; Jesus based his choices of thought, word, and deed squarely on the revealed Word of God. To the degree that we do the same, we will become like him.

Because he always said and did what God wanted him to, Jesus was “the living Word,” and that is how he reached deep into the hearts of those who truly wanted truth. The Word in his mind was manifest in his behavior. What about you and me? The reason we must renew our minds with the Word is because, as ambassadors for Christ, we are to be living epistles, known and read by all men. Clearly you are an epistle of Christ “…written not with ink but by the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of flesh, that is, of the heart” (2 Cor. 3:2 and 3-NKJV). For us, the point of The Book is to know The Man, and to become like him.

It is significant that the Old Testament was written primarily for Jesus, as the blueprint of his identity, his mission, and his destiny as the Redeemer of mankind. It was from the Old Testament that he derived “…the joy set before him…,” the motivating truth that if he would walk the full length of the valley of human need, all the way to the Cross, God would raise him from the dead and save all those who believed in him, so that with him they would enjoy everlasting life in Paradise. Whenever we read anything from Genesis to Malachi, we can remember that Jesus read the same thing, and seek to learn what he learned from it.

Why was Jesus such a “Word Warrior”? Not just so he could win arguments on Solomon’s Porch with sour grape Pharisees. It was because he knew that his life depended upon it, as did the lives of all those Old Testament saints who died with the hope of his coming and fulfilling his mission as the Messiah so they would live again. Personally, it is scintillating to think of how real Abraham, Isaac, Moses, Joshua, Samuel, David, Elijah, Daniel, and all the other Old Testament heroes were to Jesus as he pored over the record of their lives in Scripture. I think it is fair to say that throughout the torture he suffered, and when the nails were being pounded into his hands and feet, a large part of what kept him going was the anticipation of meeting those men and women (some of whom were also tortured) face to face and rewarding them for their faith.

One verse Jesus read was Psalm 119:11(NKJV): “Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You.” He not only read it, he lived it, as evidenced by the record of his temptations by Satan in the wilderness just prior to beginning his earthly ministry. Each time the Devil pierced Jesus with a “fiery dart,” he bled Bible: “It is written.” “It is written.” “It is written.” Satan even (mis)quoted Psalm 91 in an attempt to get Jesus to foolishly jump off the Temple, but the Son of God had so mastered “every jot and tittle” of the Word (Matt. 5:18 KJV) that he instantly recognized the deception and rebuffed it with the appropriate truth from the Word. The revealed Word of God was his only rule of faith and practice.

It was in the pages of the Hebrew Scriptures that Jesus found, and locked in on, who he was. It was his unshakeable sense of his identity that anchored him to the mission set before him. For Jesus, the bottom line was that he knew who he was, and it was that sense of being that engendered his precise and effectual doing the will of God throughout his life. And at critical junctures in his life—the start of his earthly ministry and on the Mount of Transfiguration as he entered the “home stretch” to the Cross—his heavenly Father affirmed his identity to him: “…This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.” Jesus’ unflagging strength and his unwavering courage were born of his assurance of his identity as the Son of God and his confidence that his Father would always honor his obedience by fulfilling His promises to him. God is our Father too, and He will do no less for you and me.

Luke 4:16-19
(16) He went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath day he went into the synagogue, as was his custom. And he stood up to read.
(17) The scroll of the prophet Isaiah was handed to him. Unrolling it, he found the place where it is written:
(18) “The Spirit [spirit] of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed,
(19) to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

As members of the Body of Christ, you and I find our identity in the Church Epistles, which the Lord Jesus gave the Apostle Paul. It is Romans through Thessalonians that shows us who we are in Christ, and that we are righteous, sanctified, justified, and filled with his very nature. That gift of holy spirit is our inseparable connection with him as well as our power base to manifest his healing love to a dying world.

The written Word of God was Christ’s basis for an intimate and personal relationship with his God and Father, and it is what convinced him that God always had his best interests at heart. That was the bedrock of his faith, and why he never failed to look to God for everything. As he walked out his earthly ministry all the way to the Cross, Jesus continually entrusted himself to God, and he knows how to help us do likewise.

1 Peter 2:21-23
(21) To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.
(22) “He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.”
(23) When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly.

In contrast to the first Adam, who disobeyed God and took matters into his own hands in order to meet his supposed “needs,” Jesus Christ (the “last Adam”) always obeyed God, trusting Him to meet his needs, which is just what entrusting oneself to God looks like. In stark contrast to Adam, who could have written a song, “He Did It His Way,” Jesus said to his Father, “Not my will, but yours be done.” Reality now testifies to the same stark contrast in the fruit of each man’s actions. May we grow into the same kind of trust that Jesus had in God, one godly thought at a time.

If we are to follow in his steps, we also need to die to our self-will and thus give God the opportunity to resurrect us to newness of life in each particular situation. Even as He raised His Son, He will never fail to do the same for us.

Luke 9:23 and 24
(23) Then he said to them all: “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.
(24) For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it.

To take up our cross may well mean short-term pain as we “die” to our self-centeredness. This is what it often feels like to turn away from what we want and turn to what God wants for us. To do so on a consistent basis, and be like Christ, we must think similar thoughts to those that he held in his mind.

Philippians 2:1-5 (NKJV)
(1) Therefore if there is any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and mercy,
(2) fulfill my joy by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
(3) Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.
(4) Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.
(5) Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus,

The mind that was in Christ was a mind filled with the Word of God to the end that he personified the very heart of God in all that he said and did. Jesus was the epitome of the fruit of the spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, and self-control. If you and I are to become like Christ, we too must saturate our hearts with the only standard for truly living, the Word of God. That will require a deliberate decision and a concerted effort on our part, but however we need to structure our time to do so will be well worth it, both now, and forever. We must then practice it faithfully, entrusting ourselves to our Father just as Jesus did. As we do, the fruit of our lives will be evident to those who hunger and thirst after righteousness, and they too can know the Lord we love, and also become like him.

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The book of Proverbs contains “wisdom for all ages.” This includes wisdom for both the young and old, as well as wisdom that is applicable through time. This teaching examines some of the structure of Proverbs, and shows that the famous section of chapter 31:1-31 is not speaking about a “virtuous woman,” but is rather figurative language regarding “women” called “Wisdom” and “Folly.” It contains much practical advice on how to live a godly life.

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Failure is Not Final

In case you missed it, I posted a series of teachings from the Truth or Tradition website about how to turn failures into success. (You can watch the video series here). These teachings are about changing perspectives and adjusting expectations concerning failures and I wanted to make sure that these important points weren’t missed. All too often, I think people wallow in their misfortunes and submerge themselves in pessimistic attitudes which automatically sets a person up to fail – for if you go into a situation with failure on your mind it’s inevitable failure will be the outcome.

I get tired of it. Yes, shit happens. Yes, it sucks, but it could always be worse. Like having three feet of my large intestine cut out of me this past month. I could choose to sink myself into self pity (why me!!) or concentrate on the fact that my whole digestive system seems to have changed and I’m having to spend countless hours consciously thinking and planning and OMG, how annoying is that?!? I have a life! I don’t have time to think about my poop cycles!! Or how uncomfortable I am pretty much all the time right now or how I have an ugly six-inch scar running down the middle of my abdomen…

But I don’t. Instead, I’m thankful my intestine didn’t explode and spread toxins throughout my body which would have put me in a truly dangerous situation. Or how thankful I am that I have some large intestine left over. (I read about how some people have to have their entire large intestine removed completely and how that causes a lot of complications and discomfort).

Or how I’m thankful it wasn’t even more serious – like a cancerous tumor instead of a simple (?) twist.

The director of hospitality paid me a visit in the hospital. His purpose was to make sure I didn’t need anything and to offer to have a chaplain pay me a visit and comfort me, if I so chose. Instead, I cracked jokes and made him laugh. I upheld my sunny disposition and when he asked me how I could remain so positive considering all that I had had to endure (not just throughout my surgery but over the past five years), I said, “What choice do I have? I prefer to look on the bright side of things.” Shortly before he left me he said, “You’ve actually made me feel better! I was supposed to make you feel better!”

And that blessed me.

It’s HARD to be positive at times, but it’s so much more healthy than sinking into despair. I also firmly believe that maintaining a positive attitude throughout life not only makes life easier, but improves the quality of one’s life, too.

But failing is part of life. It’s going to happen, there’s no getting around it. It’s how we REACT to that failure that is really the true test of our character.

I’ve posted this article in bits and pieces over the past four weeks. But I wanted to make sure that the highlights were not overlooked or discarded because they’re important – they help individuals absorb failure, recover from failure, dust themselves off from failure and adjust their attitude about failure, leaving the door open for future successes.

So pay attention, readers, this is important stuff.

Let’s look at some myths about failing.

First myth:

Failure Is Avoidable—that is a myth. Failure is not avoidable. We all fail. You have got to realize that when you fail, when you trip, or when you stumble, it is not the end, and it is not avoidable.

Second myth:

People Think of Failure as an Event. It is not a single event. It is usually a series of bad decisions. I know many times as I am counseling people, and they tell me of the specific instance where they stumbled, but yet as we talk, and you back that process up, we find a series of thought patterns and processes that led to the whole series of events that culminated into the failure (event) that they want to hold on to. It is not an event; it is a series of bad decisions. Just think of the physical world. Years ago a popular hotel had a walk-way (bridge) that collapsed during a large celebration. When they went back and did a failure analysis on it, it was not any single thing that caused the failure of that bridge. The first aspect was that too many people were on the bridge. The second aspect was that all the people were dancing and swaying to the music. The third aspect was that the contractor had shorted some of the material and bolts, in some way. The fourth aspect was that the engineer had not properly calculated all the length and span and load on the bridge. You see, although the failure was an event, what caused the failure was a series of events and not any single thing. Many times when they do failure analysis of physical events, they find that it is not any one thing but rather a series of bad decisions (bad moves) which resulted in that event. I would bet you that many times this is a similar thing in your life. How about, for example, your health? I receive calls from people asking to be ministered to. Someone may be having heart trouble, but the fact is that they have lived a life where they have eaten the wrong foods or smoked cigarettes or lived under stress, and now they want healing for their heart; however, they have sown into bad health situations. It was a series of events that led up to this heart situation.

Third myth:

Failure is Objective Verses Being Subjective. The majority of times failure is subjective. It is a matter of perspective. That is what we have to do, gain the proper perspective, a healthy perspective. Yes, you may have made a mistake, but you can change your perspective about that single event (defeat) so that you can learn from it and move forward. The fact is that I have made many mistakes, but I always tell myself, “Well, at least now I know what not to do.” This is a great perspective; therefore, it was not a failure. It is not a failure because now I know “that did not work,” and now I know not to do that anymore. I change my perspective on it; it is a great place to be.

Fourth myth:

Failure is an Enemy. We always think of failure as an enemy. We do not want failure to come anywhere near us. I would really like to encourage you to make failure a friend. Not that you want to desire it or to come to you, but the fact is that it is going to come to you. Remember, failure is not avoidable, but when it does come, look at failure as merely feedback. I heard a man a number of years ago say, “I never look at things as failures; I look at it as feedback.” Right? Well, now you know what does not work. You need to tell yourself, “It is not that I am a failure, but that I failed at doing something.” A big difference can be seen between these two.

Fifth myth:

Failure is Irreversible. Many times we get ourselves stuck in a hole (stuck in a pit). We think that there is no way for us to climb out. Let me tell you something. I was charged with 17 felony counts. I plead guilty to two felonies. I sit here today with no criminal record. That is by God’s mercy and grace. At one time, I did not have any idea of how to get out from underneath that. Also, I had lost a civil lawsuit of wrong things that I had done. I was 5.1 million dollars in debt, but again by God’s mercy and grace, I was able to work out a settlement with the people that I owed the money. I was able to pay them back in a huge way. Today, I am able to work in ministry. When I tell you that I have been a failure, I am not making that up. I have made plenty of mistakes in my life, but by God’s mercy and grace, failure is reversible! It is a myth to think that failure is irreversible. Don’t get me wrong. Consequences do occur for actions, and what you sow, you will reap. We do have a powerful God, and I know that from the record of Scripture—look at the life of David. I have not murdered anybody. I have never done things like that, but yet he was called a “man after God’s own heart.” Moses murdered someone, yet he was called “the friend of God.” He knew God face to face. Failure is reversible, but it is dependent upon you for changing the trajectory of your life. It is dependent upon you to make up your mind to walk holy and godly. You can do that. You can change. You do not have to live in this failure, defeat, or adversity. The power is within your own life.

Sixth myth:

We Think That Failure is Final. It is not over until it is over. Your life is not over until you stand before the Lord Jesus Christ and he looks you in the face and you hear his testimony of your life. I am looking for the day when I can stand before Jesus Christ, and he says, “Well done brother; come on in buddy, good job.” That is going to be the testimony that I will accept. Until it is over, it is not over. I have made many mistakes, and maybe so have you, but it is not over until it is over. Let us accept the testimony of God and Jesus Christ. Let us change our perspective; let us learn to fail forward.

C + P = E
Circumstance + Perspective = Experience

If you can control your perspective, the way you look at things, the way you relate to those setbacks, the difficulties of life, you’re going to be able to set yourself up for success. Because it’s ATTITUDE that’s the most important thing that determines whether you succeed or not.

So, you failed. Now what? Here are some key things that will help you get over the failure.

Key One: When you attempt anything and you find yourself not succeeding and being defeated, examine your expectations.

What did you really expect? Were you realistic? Did you expect everything to go perfect? If you expect everything to go perfect, and it did not go perfect—well, all of a sudden that is a source for a lot of pain and thinking that a big defeat has occurred for you. Did you expect to succeed on the first try? That is not realistic. Do you know that George Washington lost five out of the first seven battles in the Revolutionary War? What were his expectations? If he had expected that every time he entered into battle that he was going to win or if he expected everything to be perfect or if he expected to succeed on the first try, we would probably still be answering to the king of England. How many mistakes did you expect to make before you succeeded? Did you allow yourself as you set out to make any mistakes? Who is the other great President that comes to mind if I told you to think of two Presidents, George Washington and who else? Most people would say Abraham Lincoln. Do you realize that Abraham Lincoln failed at almost everything that he had attempted until he was finally elected President; and even then, he was faced with a civil war, the only civil war in our nation’s history? He is one of the top Presidents that we think of and remember. The first thing that I would like for you to do is to examine your expectations. Are you realistic in your expectations? Are you having problems in your marriage? Did you expect everything to go perfect? Are you having problems with your children? Well, was it realistic that you would not have some problems? If you adjust your expectations, it will help you go a long way to learning how to fail forward. I am not saying, “drop your vision” or “lower your expectations.” I am saying to become realistic in your expectations.

Key Two: Find new ways of doing your work.

Okay, you have done some things, and it did not work. Brainstorm new approaches, and then try some of them. Think of Thomas Edison for example, two thousand tries to make the incandescent light bulb before he succeeded. Do you know what that tells me? It tells me that 1999 times he failed. That is a man who knew how to brainstorm and try new approaches, so find new ways to do your work. Look at the fact that if it does not work, that is a great place to be. You now know what not to do. I think of it as seeing a big wall of ice in front of me and not knowing where to start. I have no idea of how to climb it, so I just take a running stab at it. With my ice-pick, I just slam it into the face of the ice. Well, guess what? At least now, I have a starting place, and from there, I get to move forward. Everything may not be going up. Maybe I will have to move sideways, maybe occasionally move backwards, but keep looking toward the goal of going up. Brainstorm new approaches and then try them. Find new ways of doing your work.

Key Three: Focus on your strengths.

Maximize your skill and strengths to maximize your efforts. A good friend of mine, Dave DeMars, said years ago that his father or grandfather said to him, “If it does not fit, do not get a bigger hammer.” You see, a lot of time that is what we do. We try something, and it does not work. What do we then do? We get a bigger hammer, and we just keep pounding away at it. You need to learn your strengths. Years ago I remember someone came to me in fellowship and said, “Dan, I believe that I am called as a teacher. I would really like to teach.” I said, “That is great. That is a beautiful desire and a wonderful thing. Why don’t you teach next week at fellowship?” They taught a couple of times. They finally came back to me one day and said, “You know, I have taught a few times, and I am just not getting that my ministry is teaching.” That is a wonderful place to be. How would you have known if you had not tried? You know what you know now? You know that you are not called as a teacher. In the same way, how do you know if you are a prophet? You start to prophecy. You start to speak. You get bold and walk out. How would you know if you are an evangelist? You try to go out and evangelize and start speaking. Maximize your skills, but in order to maximize your skills, you have to learn what those skills are. A number of years ago, John Schoenheit and others had the inspiration for our Teens & Twenties Camp. John and I had lots of conversations about this. John’s focus was on study skills and developing the working of lexicons, concordances, and Greek and Hebrew. One time I was talking to John, and I was just struggling with this, “John, I am not getting this. I do not understand it. All the kids that I know do not seem turned on by the intricacies of the Word of God the way that you are.” He looked at me and said, “Yeah Dan, but you know what. I realize that I have to run a thousand kids through in order to find a few that really want to research the depth of God’s Word the way that I do.” You see, that is a man who understands the principal of failing forward. He does not look at it as 999 kids that do not get that spark like he does. He is looking for that one diamond in the rough. That is failing forward. Learn to maximize your skills and your strengths, and you will maximize your effort. Focus on your strengths.

Key Four: Vow to bounce back.

No matter how many times you may fall; pick yourself back up. It does not hurt to pick yourself back up. We just get defeated. We get tired. We want to give up, but it is what you do after you get back up that really counts. You know that it is not a matter of try, try, try, and try again. It is a matter of try, learn, adjust, and then try again. Is not there a definition that “insanity is essentially doing the same thing over and over and over and expecting different results”? You have to find new ways to do your work. Focus on your strengths and vow to get back.

George Bernard Shaw once said, “A life spent in making mistakes is not only more honorable but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.” Go out and make mistakes. That is honorable because then at least you are trying; you are moving. You have to get yourself moving. It does not matter how long you have been inactive. It does not matter how long that you have been sitting without movement. The only way to break that cycle is to face the fear and take action.

YOU can take control of your attitude toward failure – your attitude is a CHOICE. Your attitude is what is going to determine whether you succeed or fail.

There are many ways to be a winner, but there is only way to fail and that’s if you don’t get back up when life comes at you.

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Teaching: Turning Mistakes into Stepping Stones to Success (Part 4)

Every Sunday I provide videos and valuable links to the Truth or Tradition teachings. We’ve been following the Truth or Tradition teachings for many years now and they have truly blessed our family. We have found peace and happiness through our beliefs and we walk confidently for God. My hope, by passing on this information to you, is that what you find here, or on the Truth or Tradition website, will guide you to a better, more blessed and abundant life.

If you would like to read my views on religion and how we got started with the ministry, you can read this.

Let’s get started:

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[The following article is an edited transcription of the June 2005 Tape/CD of the Month, Failing Forward by Dan Gallagher.]

Let God define success for us. In fact, that is the third point of this teaching. How are we defining success? If you look to the world, you are not going to get a proper definition. Their definition includes wealth, fame, beauty, material goods such as: money, cars, fat paychecks, big bank accounts. Is that how you are defining it? Do you feel defeated because your bank account is not that big? Are you having financial difficulty? Maybe you are not the most handsome or most beautiful woman on the street. Maybe you have a car that is broken down. I am sure that many of us do, but that is not how we need to define success. That is how the world defines it, and do not let the Devil bait you into that trap. [For further study, read What Should be a Christian’s Attitude Towards Money and Material Possessions?]

Do not misunderstand me. I am not saying that anything is wrong with these things in and of themselves, but it is how we relate to them. It is our perspective about them. A lot is wrong with them, though, if the possession of them or the quantity of them is how you are defining your success. I say this because God says that He has chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise, so we need to examine our definitions. One of the things that always keeps me sharp in this area is reminding myself that discipline does not necessarily feel very successful.

John 15:1 and 2
(1) “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener.
(2) He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.

I do not imagine that too much is there that feels good about the pruning process. I have been pruned a lot in my life. I know when God is disciplining me, because He disciplines us like a father disciplines his children. I have four daughters, and they are wonderful women, now. They have all been raised, but it was very hard. They did not enjoy discipline, but yet God’s testimony says, “Every branch that bears fruit, he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.” Well, are you feeling pruned? If you are not fruitful, you are not being pruned. That is what he says that every branch that bears fruit is going to be pruned. When you are enduring the pruning process, you have got to learn to fail forward. You have to learn to press through that.

Another example of how we define success (something that we need to remember), is that persecution never feels very successful.

Matthew 5:11
Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.

He said, “Blessed are you when people insult you.” Do people insult you? Have people falsely accused you? Do you feel persecution? I am telling you this: the testimony of Jesus Christ is that you are blessed if you are persecuted. Are you being insulted or persecuted or being falsely accused because of him? If that is the source of your persecution, you are pretty blessed. You are a successful person. You need to remember that. I know that sometimes I am accused of things which I really do not have a witness in my heart about and it hurts. It hurts a lot. It feels like eating dirt with gravel and glass in it, but yet the testimony of the Word of God is that if you are walking, serving the Father, walking in His will, pursuing a holy and righteous life style, you are going to be insulted. You are going to be persecuted, and you are going to be falsely accused.

John 15:20
Remember the words I spoke to you: ‘No servant is greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also.

Is your life showing some signs of persecution? I remember a story that I heard years ago. The dean of a Christian seminary used to bring in all the students and interview them. He brought in a young man one day and asked him how his life was going. The young man said, “Fine! Everything is going great, wonderful.” The dean looked really distressed. The young man said, “Why? What is wrong?” The dean said, “Then you must not being doing something right because if you are really walking with the Lord, you ought to be feeling some heat.” I really believe this is the testimony of Scripture. Do you have some heat coming against you? Do you have some adversity? Are you feeling some defeat? If you are, then you are probably doing the right thing? That is the perspective that you need to have. You need to be able to fail forward. All great achievers are given multiple reasons to believe that they are a failure, but in spite of that they persevere.

I would like to move on now and take a look at some of the myths that surround failure. In fact, I call this part of the teaching “Let’s Do A Little Myth Busting.”

First myth:

Failure Is Avoidable—that is a myth. Failure is not avoidable. We all fail. You have got to realize that when you fail, when you trip, or when you stumble, it is not the end, and it is not avoidable.

Second myth:

People Think of Failure as an Event. It is not a single event. It is usually a series of bad decisions. I know many times as I am counseling people, and they tell me of the specific instance where they stumbled, but yet as we talk, and you back that process up, we find a series of thought patterns and processes that led to the whole series of events that culminated into the failure (event) that they want to hold on to. It is not an event; it is a series of bad decisions. Just think of the physical world. Years ago a popular hotel had a walk-way (bridge) that collapsed during a large celebration. When they went back and did a failure analysis on it, it was not any single thing that caused the failure of that bridge. The first aspect was that too many people were on the bridge. The second aspect was that all the people were dancing and swaying to the music. The third aspect was that the contractor had shorted some of the material and bolts, in some way. The fourth aspect was that the engineer had not properly calculated all the length and span and load on the bridge. You see, although the failure was an event, what caused the failure was a series of events and not any single thing. Many times when they do failure analysis of physical events, they find that it is not any one thing but rather a series of bad decisions (bad moves) which resulted in that event. I would bet you that many times this is a similar thing in your life. How about, for example, your health? I receive calls from people asking to be ministered to. Someone may be having heart trouble, but the fact is that they have lived a life where they have eaten the wrong foods or smoked cigarettes or lived under stress, and now they want healing for their heart; however, they have sown into bad health situations. It was a series of events that led up to this heart situation.

Third myth:

Failure is Objective Verses Being Subjective. The majority of times failure is subjective. It is a matter of perspective. That is what we have to do, gain the proper perspective, a healthy perspective. Yes, you may have made a mistake, but you can change your perspective about that single event (defeat) so that you can learn from it and move forward. The fact is that I have made many mistakes, but I always tell myself, “Well, at least now I know what not to do.” This is a great perspective; therefore, it was not a failure. It is not a failure because now I know “that did not work,” and now I know not to do that anymore. I change my perspective on it; it is a great place to be.

Fourth myth:

Failure is an Enemy. We always think of failure as an enemy. We do not want failure to come anywhere near us. I would really like to encourage you to make failure a friend. Not that you want to desire it or to come to you, but the fact is that it is going to come to you. Remember, failure is not avoidable, but when it does come, look at failure as merely feedback. I heard a man a number of years ago say, “I never look at things as failures; I look at it as feedback.” Right? Well, now you know what does not work. You need to tell yourself, “It is not that I am a failure, but that I failed at doing something.” A big difference can be seen between these two.

Fifth myth:

Failure is Irreversible. Many times we get ourselves stuck in a hole (stuck in a pit). We think that there is no way for us to climb out. Let me tell you something. I was charged with 17 felony counts. I plead guilty to two felonies. I sit here today with no criminal record. That is by God’s mercy and grace. At one time, I did not have any idea of how to get out from underneath that. Also, I had lost a civil lawsuit of wrong things that I had done. I was 5.1 million dollars in debt, but again by God’s mercy and grace, I was able to work out a settlement with the people that I owed the money. I was able to pay them back in a huge way. Today, I am able to work in ministry. When I tell you that I have been a failure, I am not making that up. I have made plenty of mistakes in my life, but by God’s mercy and grace, failure is reversible! It is a myth to think that failure is irreversible. Don’t get me wrong. Consequences do occur for actions, and what you sow, you will reap. We do have a powerful God, and I know that from the record of Scripture—look at the life of David. I have not murdered anybody. I have never done things like that, but yet he was called a “man after God’s own heart.” Moses murdered someone, yet he was called “the friend of God.” He knew God face to face. Failure is reversible, but it is dependent upon you for changing the trajectory of your life. It is dependent upon you to make up your mind to walk holy and godly. You can do that. You can change. You do not have to live in this failure, defeat, or adversity. The power is within your own life.

Sixth myth:

We Think That Failure is Final. It is not over until it is over. Your life is not over until you stand before the Lord Jesus Christ and he looks you in the face and you hear his testimony of your life. I am looking for the day when I can stand before Jesus Christ, and he says, “Well done brother; come on in buddy, good job.” That is going to be the testimony that I will accept. Until it is over, it is not over. I have made many mistakes, and maybe so have you, but it is not over until it is over. Let us accept the testimony of God and Jesus Christ. Let us change our perspective; let us learn to fail forward.

In the next part of this teaching I would like to review four keys on how you can remove yourself from failure. I think that these are powerful and practical steps. They have worked for me and they have worked for many people. I would like you to just consider them.

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Here is a masterful exposition of what the Word of God actually says about one of the most critical weeks in “His-story.” Tradition has greatly distorted much of the beautiful truth about the events leading up to and including our Savior’s death and resurrection, and this teaching should greatly enhance your love for the written Word of God in all its perfection. It should also increase your love for the Living Word, the Lord Jesus Christ.

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Teaching: Turning Mistakes into Stepping Stones to Success (Part 3)

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[The following article is an edited transcription of the June 2005 Tape/CD of the Month, Failing Forward by Dan Gallagher.]

Let us also look at another great example. Consider the life of Moses. He was born as an Israelite but raised in the house of Pharaoh.

Exodus 2:13 and 14
(13) The next day he went out and saw two Hebrews fighting. He asked the one in the wrong, “Why are you hitting your fellow Hebrew?”
(14) The man said, “Who made you ruler and judge over us? Are you thinking of killing me as you killed the Egyptian?” Then Moses was afraid and thought, “What I did must have become known.”

You see, the day before Moses saw an Egyptian beating up on a Hebrew, and he struck the Egyptian, killing him, not only killing him but burying him in the sand. Well, all of a sudden, he is there trying to intervene between two Hebrew brother’s fighting, and the next thing that you know, one of them has turned on him.

Exodus 2:15
When Pharaoh heard of this, he tried to kill Moses, but Moses fled from Pharaoh and went to live in Midian, where he sat down by a well.

Wow, put yourself in Moses’ shoes. How successful would you feel at this point? Having to go from the position of the guy riding in the chariot, living in Pharaoh’s house, clothing, wealth, food, all of that at your feet, and servants waiting on you, and what are you now? You are a murderer, and you are sitting down by a well as a fugitive from your homeland. It does not sound too successful to me. That perspective had to change. Moses had to change. God did work with Moses, and you know how God called Moses in the burning bush. It is a beautiful record in Exodus where God works with Moses, and He tries to build Moses’ heart. God tries to build Moses and get him off his failure from thinking that he is nothing but merely a forty year wanderer in the wilderness following sheep to all of a sudden a man who is going to lead God’s chosen people out of Egypt.

Exodus 33:11
The LORD would speak to Moses face to face, as a man speaks with his friend.

Wow, that is invigorating to me. This is a guy who is a murderer; a man who has spent 40 years walking through the desert. He had to change his thinking. He had to fail forward. He had to wrap his mind around what God was calling him to do. He was a man that the Word of God declares that God knew him “face to face as a man speaks with his friend.” That is failing forward!

This is a wonderful example of what God is trying to tell us about how we need to do the same thing. We need to fail forward. When adversity, when defeat, when the obstacles of life come your way, you cannot become immobile with them. We have got to go to God, and we have got to fail forward.

In 1 Samuel 9:1 is the record of a man named Saul. This is a record of a man who started off as a great winner but became a loser. Some of these other people about whom we have talked, Rahab for example, started off as a loser, but the Word of God testifies that she was a great winner, or Moses who started off as a winner, became a loser, and then turned around and became a winner again. Now, we have Saul.

1 Samuel 9:1 and 2
(1) There was a Benjamite, a man of standing, whose name was Kish son of Abiel, the son of Zeror, the son of Becorath, the son of Aphiah of Benjamin.
(2) He had a son named Saul, an impressive young man without equal among the Israelites– a head taller than any of the others.

This is not some loser. This is an impressive young man that the Word of God would say that he is “without equal.” That is not where Saul ends up, unfortunately. Because of the insecurities of Saul’s heart, because of his fear, because of his jealousy and envy of a young man named David, he loses his entire ministry.

1 Samuel 18:8
Saul was very angry; this refrain galled him. “They have credited David with tens of thousands,” he thought, “but me with only thousands. What more can he get but the kingdom?”

See how Saul’s heart had turned. This is a man that was without equal among the Israelites. God did not choose Saul because he was a loser. He chose Saul because he saw the potential in this man, but Saul just lost it. He did not know how to fail forward.

1 Samuel 18:9-12
(9) And from that time on Saul kept a jealous eye on David.
(10) The next day an evil spirit from God came forcefully upon Saul. He was prophesying in his house, while David was playing the harp, as he usually did. Saul had a spear in his hand
(11) and he hurled it, saying to himself, “I’ll pin David to the wall.” But David eluded him twice.
(12) Saul was afraid of David, because the LORD was with David but had left Saul.

Saul lost it. Saul did not know how to fail forward. He did not know how to take his defeats. Okay, so what if David had killed tens of thousands and Saul only his thousands. Was that a reason or justification to try and kill David? No. Saul needed to grab a hold of his mind. The fact of the matter was that God had chosen Saul, which was a bigger testimony than the tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands a man named David would have killed.

1 Samuel 19:1
Saul told his son Jonathan and all the attendants to kill David.

Can you imagine starting off like this? David is already anointed and had the oil poured on his head. This is a little bit of a defeat. David got to start a lot of his public life with the great success of killing Goliath. David did slay Goliath in front of all of the armies of Israel. Remember David as a young man, the record even says that he carried the guys head for a number of days. He was pretty satisfied at that success. How would you feel if the king of your country was trying to kill you? We already read how Saul had tried to pin him twice against the wall with the spear.

I will not go through the whole record of David’s life, but please, do take the time to examine it because you will find that he was an adulterer and a murderer. A child of his died as a result of his sin. He took a census in disobedience to God’s directive, and people died as a result of that. The record of the Word of God was also that he was an over-indulgent father. He was a man of blood and a man with a hot temper. Remember when he was on his way to kill Nabal because he had refused to feed him and his army. But what is the real testimony of David? In spite of his adultery, his murder, in spite of his sin, in spite of his being an over-indulgent father, being a man of blood, and all of the other negative, nasty things that we know of David’s life, the testimony of the Word of God was that he was “a man after God’s own heart.” Why? It was because David, in spite of his sinfulness and in spite of his unrighteousness, did do the righteous thing of falling before the Father and of confessing his sin. He was a man who knew how to fail forward.

Let’s take a look at Jesus Christ.

Did Jesus Christ’s life look like a success? He starts his ministry being tossed out of his hometown synagogue and was then led to a hill where they were going to toss him off a cliff. It would have killed him. Jesus was openly ridiculed. He was without any honor in his hometown. He was beaten, flogged, and crucified. He was murdered. He was falsely accused. Remember, the people walked by him saying, “If this be the Son of God, let him come down off that cross.” Even after his death, Jesus was buried in another man’s grave. It does not look too successful to most of us. It did not look successful to them in those days either. Yet in Luke, talking about the road to Emmaus, there is a beautiful record.

Luke 24:25 and 26
(25) He said to them, “How foolish you are, and how slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken!
(26) Did not the Christ have to suffer these things and then enter his glory?”

Did Christ not have to deal with adversity and then succeed? Did Christ not have to suffer defeat and then succeed? Did Christ not know how to fail forward? His death looked like a failure to his followers. It looked like the Devil defeated God, but from God’s perspective, it was the summit of success. Jesus’ death opened wide the door for all mankind’s repentance and permanent redemption. It is what ushered in the greatest thing that God has done for mankind, the Sacred Secret. That is what I call failing forward. God, again, lets it look like He is being defeated, but He fails forward.

Let’s consider the life of the Apostle Paul. I love Paul. He is a great inspiration to me. I want this teaching to be an encouragement to you as it has been to me.

2 Corinthians 12:7
To keep me from becoming conceited because of these surpassingly great revelations, there was given me a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me.

This does not sound too successful.

2 Corinthians 12:8-10
(8) Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me.
(9) But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.
(10) That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

For when I am weak, when I fail, when I am defeated, when I am confronted with adversity, insults, hardships, persecutions, difficulties, weakness, he says, “Then I am strong.” This is a man who knew how to fail forward! I cannot even imagine the suffering that Paul had to endure in his life, yet he was able to pick himself up. What does the Word of God say, “A righteous man though he falls seven times gets up”? Paul was righteous, and all these other people. Think of Job. He lost everything, all the material possessions, his wife, his family, and everything, yet it says that God restored it to him again double. How about the prophets of the Old Testament? Isaiah and Jeremiah, these guys were persecuted. They were pursued. Read the record in Hebrews of the great men and women of faith and all the things that they had to go through. They learned to fail forward.

We have got to learn to persevere. We have got to learn to look adversity in the face and use it as a friend. We need to use it to encourage us and use it to inspire us to succeed.

2 Corinthians 6:4 and 5
(4) Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses;
(5) in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger;

This does not sound too much like a wonderful and abundant life to me.

2 Corinthians 6:6, 9 and 10
(6) in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love;
(9) known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed;
(10) sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything.

This is a man who has mastered the art of failing forward.

2 Corinthians 11:23-30
(23) Are they servants of Christ? (I am out of my mind to talk like this.) I am more. I have worked much harder, been in prison more frequently, been flogged more severely, and been exposed to death again and again.
(24) Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes minus one.
(25) Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea,
(26) I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false brothers.
(27) I have labored and toiled and have often gone without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked.
(28) Besides everything else, I face daily the pressure of my concern for all the churches.
(29) Who is weak, and I do not feel weak? Who is led into sin, and I do not inwardly burn?
(30) If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness.

Wow! Can you imagine? Forty lashes minus one and receiving that five times from the Jews. Three times being beaten with rods, being stoned, and being shipwrecked, this is unbelievable to me, but this is a man whose testimony of his life is a phenomenal success. Never judge your life by isolated situations or instances. Let God write the testimony of your life. Be a righteous person and get up and keep moving. Do you have things that have been unsuccessful in your life? So what, so have I, so have we all! If you have not had them, then you are not living.

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What value is there in really working hard for the Lord and striving to obey Him? Why not just get saved and then do what’s convenient and comfortable? This teaching clearly sets forth the difference between salvation and the rewards that Christ will give to those believers who have earned them. It also suggests what some of those rewards may be and teaches why the subject of future rewards is so misunderstood in most churches today. We believe it will help to motivate you to more diligently and enthusiastically walk with the Lord Jesus Christ.

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